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Thinking of Barry Tanenbaum[ return to main articles page ]

By: Lee Jones
Published on Nov 14th, 2011
It wasn’t really all that long ago that No Limit Hold’em was virtually unknown outside tournaments. The cash No Limit Hold’em games had died off back in the early 1980s and been replaced by Limit Hold’em. Whether you went to the giant card barns of California, a two-table poker annex in an off-Strip Las Vegas casino, or anything in between, you saw Limit Hold’em being played.

We had our pillars of Limit Hold’em to whom we listened and from whom we learned: Jim Brier, Roy Cooke, and so on. But one of our big heroes was Barry Tanenbaum (pictured above).

Barry had a very successful career heading up an education department at Tandem Computers in Cupertino, California (a.k.a. the home of Apple headquarters and ground zero of Silicon Valley). But his real passion was one exit down I-280 at the Garden City “Casino,” where I first met him. Barry started in the $2-$4 Limit Hold’em games and eventually graduated to being a fixture in the largest game in the room - $20-$40.

He brought his engineering head to the game, but more importantly, he brought his ineffable good nature. Whether the cards fell good or bad, he kept his good humor and was always delightful company.

He was also always willing to discuss hands with people. I’d ask him about a hand and he’d carefully break it down for me, telling me where I’d gone wrong. Realize, of course, that when you play Limit Hold’em, there are often four streets of difficult decisions to be made – you’re not always “pot-committed” by the river. Barry’s keen understanding and clear head made him a wonderful source for how to navigate all four streets.

Some years ago, while he was still living in San Jose, he began to experience kidney problems, ultimately resulting in his needing a kidney transplant. With the support of his friends and (mostly) his wife Betty (whom he always refers to as “the lovely and talented BettyT”), Barry made it through that huge ordeal and returned to the poker tables he loved.

Not too long after that, he retired and he and Betty moved to Las Vegas, where Barry quickly became a staple in the $30-$60 and $40-$80 Limit Hold’em games at the Bellagio. Those were (and quite arguably still are) some of the toughest live Limit Hold’em games in the world, but Barry continued to beat them even though his health was always an issue.

He also continued to share his knowledge with other poker players. He gave presentations at the poker conferences that Linda Johnson (pictured) and Jan Fisher put on, went on cruises with them (where he gave shipboard seminars), and wrote articles for Card Player. I believe that he is one of the longest appearing writers on the Card Player staff. He even wrote a book about Limit Hold’em; the only thing wrong with the book was that its release coincided almost perfectly with the explosion of a nationwide obsession with No Limit Hold’em.

I should also mention, by way of disclaimer, that Barry helped me totally re-craft my single opus, “Winning Low Limit Hold’em,” back in 2004. It was the third edition and people have told me that it was a quantum improvement over the prior two; I always told them that Barry could take credit for much of that improvement.

Barry is also a good friend and I’ve made it a point to visit him whenever I’m in Las Vegas. We often talk politics, on which we agree about virtually nothing. But I always listen carefully because I know Barry’s opinions are thoughtful and rational even if I disagree violently with them.

Speaking of violently disagreeing with Barry, I need to mention Alan Schoonmaker (pictured), another old school poker guy who writes about the psychology of the game. I love being with Barry and Alan because they’re like an old Jewish couple that disagree about everything, but are somewhat lost without each other.

Barry is a hardcore conservative (in the truest sense of the world); Alan (like me) is a pureblood liberal. They sit at lunch together discussing whatever, but neither ever misses the opportunity to fire an under-the-table political bullet at the other. It’s a joy to be with them and watch them exchange fire.

Which brings me, regrettably, to the point of this article. Barry’s health has taken a very hard turn for the worse; as I write this, he is on life support in a Las Vegas hospital. The lovely and talented BettyT is with him, of course, as will be people such as Linda Johnson and Jan Fisher. I’m sure Alan Schoonmaker is there as much as possible.

I don’t know when – or if – Barry will come out of this. I do know that his friends from all over the poker world – the BARGE community, the San Jose poker crowd, and the cruisers – are all thinking good thoughts for him. Perhaps you’ll be good enough to add yours too.

Lee Jones is the Head of Home Games for PokerStars and has been working in the online poker industry since 2003. He is also the author of “Winning Low Limit Hold’em,” which is still in print 17 years after its initial publication.

Comments

  1. Lee, Thanks for writing such a great article about Barry. Barry is an amazing man and I've always enjoyed his friendship. I wish there were more people in the world with Barry's sense of humor, love of poker, and strong morals and ethics. Betty and Barry just renewed their vows and are a very loving couple. Betty will have some tough decisions to make in the next few days...I encourage her good friends to keep in touch and lend some emotional support. Linda Johnson
  2. What a beautiful article you've written about a beautiful and wonderful human being. I went and sat with Barry for a while tonight, held his hand, and told him how much he meant to me. It is with huge amounts of love that I also told him if he was tired of fighting, it was OK. Sometimes the biggest act of love is being able to say goodbye. I hope Barry rebounds and gets his "one time" right now, when it means the most. I am hoping for a miracle now, as that's what Barry and Betty now need.
    One time.... please.
    I love you Barry and thank you, Lee, for telling the world and his friends more about him.
    Sincerely,
    Jan Fisher
  3. I hope the best for Barry, thanks Lee for making us aware of him and these historical poker steps.
  4. My thoughts and prayers are with Barry and his family in this difficult time, may God Bless and comfort them....
     
  5. Never knew the man, but knew of him. Poignant, beautifully written.. thanks Lee, and God bless Barry..
     
  6. I always enjoyed reading Barry's insightful articles in CardPlayer. The picture on my profile was taken at Garden City. Had I known Barry was a regular there, I would have introduced myself. I hope and pray for his recovery.
  7. I'm sad to say that Barry passed away early this morning. It was expected and fortunately he was in no pain. But it's obviously devastating to his wife, family, and friends.

    There will be a celebration of his life on December 21st in Las Vegas - I'll make sure that Pocket Fives has the details for those of you who want to go say good-bye to one of the great guys of poker.

    Regards, Lee
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