So I have this crazy ex, who doesn't I know. But I dated her for a long time and it ended really well, we still talk, go out together and what not. We have a ton of mutual friends so we see each other a lot whether we like to or not. The only time when things go wrong is when I bring a new girl around. The last 3 girls I've brought around our friends she's always had to talk some shit.

Well the last one I brought around she didn't say anything at all, she was really friendly with her and I was shocked. She's now dating one of our mutual friends so I thought maybe she was finally over whatever he issue was. Well as I'm going into the bathroom she's leaving the girls bathroom. She grabs me and pulls me off to the side and starts making out with me, I push her off and she keeps trying. I eventually just walk away not knowing what to think. I don't tell my new girlfriend and just blow it off as she's drunk.

There are probably like a dozen people in the group we're with and we head to one last bar for last call. My ex is smashed and so is her new boyfriend. So we're leaving and my new gf is lingering behind talking to my friends. My ex grabs me by my belt buckle and takes me down the block. We get around the corner and she tells me she wants to fuck me and we should ditch out dates. I'm pissed that she's acting like this and push her away. She goes to push up on me again and tries to kiss me just as my new gf comes around the corner. Sweet, now it looks like I was trying to make out with my ex, which was definitely not the case. My ex goes running off and laughing and I'm left to pick up the pieces with my new gf.

I straighten things out and tell my new gf what happened and she trusts me so everything is ok. About a week later I tell my ex's new guy, a mutual friend of ours, what happened and he's glad that I told him. Yesterday I get a message on facebook from my ex telling me how fucked up it was that I told him and that she doesn't want to be my friend anymore. I normally wouldn't care but we have some many mutual friends I don't want things to be awkward all the time.

So what do I do, say fuck it oh well and let it be? Or ask her why she's being such a bitch? I feel like my ex is just looking for attention but I'm not really sure. Anyways if any of the women read this I'd love some insight. And wouldn't mind anyone elses.

Cliff Notes:

My and ex are cool, dated for awhile.

Ex tries to make out with me while we're both out with our new bf/gf's, I reject her.

Ex tries making out with me again, my new gf sees

I tell my ex's new boyfriend, mutual friend of ours, what happened.

Ex is pissed and doesn't want to be my friend anymore.

Ex and I have a ton of mutual friends and I am looking for advice on how to handle this.



ex is the blonde on the right

The chick on the left in the first pic looks like the sister on Dexter.

Hope that helps!

did you fuck your new girlfriend in the ass?

Sorry I'm not like 99% of OT, I bang less than 10's and don't have the lady game 100% on lock down.

Let it be - you talking to your ex at this point would be a no-no - there's no way your current gf would like that - let shit wash over with time

You did the right thing on both fronts. I would just carry on as normal. If she has a problem with you guys if you all go out together then fuck her.. There are enough people in your group it sounds that you can avoid her if shes not going to be a big girl about it,carry on

 

Originally Posted by BobbyPossum

Sorry I'm not like 99% of OT, I bang less than 10's and don't have the lady game 100% on lock down.

shouldn't you be grinding micro tournies right now? You have 0 scores posted.

 

Originally Posted by Mr. Blonde

shouldn't you be grinding micro tournies right now? You have 0 scores posted.

Sigh I'm on my gf's computer right now. The power coupling to my PC was shot so I had to get a new one. I'll be picking it up in about an hour though. Don't worry my friend I'll put in probably one of the higher volumes by the time the contest is done.

 

Originally Posted by BobbyPossum

Sigh I'm on my gf's computer right now.  The power coupling to my PC was shot so I had to get a new one.  I'll be picking it up in about an hour though.  Don't worry my friend I'll put in probably one of the higher volumes by the time the contest is done.

you better make sure and delete your history and log out of p5s when you're done, imo

um but serious part of the post...I don't think you did anything wrong by telling the other dude, especially since he's a friend of yours. I would try to cut off contact with your ex if you are serious with your new gf because it's clear that she wants to try and ruin your relationship with your new gf. On the other hand, if you don't give a fuck about the new gf and like drama, just fuck both of them, and wait for the shitstorm to begin.

 

Originally Posted by BobbyPossum

Sorry I'm not like 99% of OT, I bang less than 10's and don't have the lady game 100% on lock down.

Quite the contrary, judging by those two posts, it's pretty obvious that you're likely doing better than 99% of OT in that dept. Hence, the brag posts crack.

In the end (pun intended), your "situations" are pretty straightforward, IMO.

Yes, your g/f does want it in the pooper. If you're still unsure about the signals she's sending and you're unwilling to go there until she waves you around third towards home, start with a finger and go from there.

And yes, your ex is an attention seeking psycho. Any discussion with her about the situation will go nowhere. You're either going to have to get used to uncomfortable situations around mutual friends or stop hanging out in those groups when she's around. It sucks, but it's how it has to be.

 

Originally Posted by KatrinGauer

did you take pics of fucking your new girlfriend in the ass?