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Do you still talk to exes if you're in another relationship?

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  1. goofy2485 goofy2485 is offline This thread sucks.

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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 4:07am)

    If you were friends before the relationship does it really matter?

    I never talk to any of my ex girlfriends and would only even think about calling them if I wanted ass or to try and reconcile.
  2. Hateflops Hateflops is offline 7 over par. ship it!

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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 4:08am) in reply to goofy2485

    I texted my ex girlfriend over the weekend when I got drunk.

    Wish I could go back in time.

    *edit* I'm single, no I don't talk to my ex's if i'm in a relationship
    Edited By: Hateflops Jul 7th, 2011 at 04:10 AM
  3. SyphonSoul SyphonSoul is offline

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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 4:09am) in reply to Hateflops

    no. im not one of those dudes that become "friends" w girls. my relationships end with fuck off wars
     
  4. MissBecky MissBecky is offline if you're nasty

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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 4:11am) in reply to SyphonSoul

     
    Originally Posted by SyphonSoul View Post

    no. im not one of those dudes that become "friends" w girls. my relationships end with fuck off wars

    looool

    my answer is no. not unless it's necessary. like if you have kids together or something.
  5. norcaljeff norcaljeff is offline 2010 OT Thread Kill Leader

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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 4:13am) in reply to MissBecky

    wtf? we talk all the tim-errrr nvm I've said too much
  6. MissBecky MissBecky is offline if you're nasty

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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 4:16am) in reply to norcaljeff

    so much for you keeping a secret.
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 4:16am) in reply to MissBecky

    This can only end in problems if you are in another relationship for the most part.

    I'd probably never date some girl who I knew was close to an ex.

    I've only been "in a relationship..." with two girls in my life cause I love being single but of those two one has been life deleted (blocked on fbook, hope I never see/talk to her in my life) and the other I still talk too every few months when I want some ass.
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 4:19am) in reply to BigEarn7

     
    Originally Posted by BigEarn7 View Post

    This can only end in problems if you are in another relationship for the most part.

    I'd probably never date some girl who I knew was close to an ex.

    Pretty much this.

    I randomly talk to the ex now, but once another one comes around... she is cut off completely.
    Edited By: Jaybone2315 Jul 7th, 2011 at 04:19 AM
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 4:23am) in reply to Jaybone2315

    Sure, why not? I'm friends with all of my ex's. Some of my ex's have even become friends with each other, which is pretty freakin wild.
    Edited By: Tim Lock Jul 7th, 2011 at 04:25 AM
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 4:31am) in reply to Tim Lock

    I casually speak to my ex once every few months. They were an important part of your life at some point, so I don't see a problem with keeping communication open. When I first broke up with my serious ex girlfriends, I didn't talk to them at all for a decent amount of time. Once you get to a certain point though, you just view them as old friends.

    I know my fiance also keeps in decent touch with her ex boyfriends, and I have no problem with that, either. Actually met one and he was a really cool guy.
    Edited By: Wein Jul 7th, 2011 at 04:32 AM
     
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 4:44am) in reply to Wein

    FUCK NO!

    blocked on fbook, aim, msn, any other device. numbers deleted, and when they text, it's basically a "fuck off", or "who the fuck is this?" message back.

    any g/f i was serious with who spoke to an ex, would be gone in an instant as well.
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 4:47am) in reply to hostile

     
    Originally Posted by hostile View Post

    FUCK NO!

    blocked on fbook, aim, msn, any other device. numbers deleted, and when they text, it's basically a "fuck off", or "who the fuck is this?" message back.

    any g/f i was serious with who spoke to an ex, would be gone in an instant as well.

    sounds hostile.
  13. SevenCostanza SevenCostanza is offline

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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 4:57am) in reply to RUBINH

    about a month ago my ex came to visit me for a long weekend. most of friday/saturday the three of us were all together (usually with other people as well), and they got along pretty well.
    and because of this i like my current girlfriend even more. any sort of awkwardness/jealousy/bitchiness would have been huge red flags for me.
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 5:02am) in reply to SevenCostanza

    pm defendrofangels.
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 5:36am) in reply to SevenCostanza

     
    Originally Posted by SevenCostanza View Post

    about a month ago my ex came to visit me for a long weekend. most of friday/saturday the three of us were all together (usually with other people as well), and they got along pretty well.
    and because of this i like my current girlfriend even more. any sort of awkwardness/jealousy/bitchiness would have been huge red flags for me.

    Is this a pic of your gf who shows no emotions?



    I'm pretty if I ever asked a chick I was dating if an ex could come visit me, they'd tell me to go fuck myself, or at least I'd hope they would.
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 5:48am) in reply to BigEarn7

     
    Originally Posted by BigEarn7 View Post

    I'm pretty if I ever asked a chick I was dating if an ex could come visit me, they'd tell me to go fuck myself, or at least I'd hope they would.

    The night before my ex and I had been chatting online and asked if such and such weekend would work. The next day I was walking down the street with my girlfriend and the ex called to say she booked the flight. So I just said "That was my friend XXXXX. She's coming to visit in two weeks. And just for full disclosure, she's my ex-girlfriend. Not that it should make a difference." And she's like "I don't see why it would." And then we went back to whatever we were talking about before.
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 5:51am) in reply to SevenCostanza

    I still talk to ex's, tho most people I've dated we seperated on somewhat good terms. I still hook up with them occasionally and have also had them set me up with friends or hooked up with their friends. Really can't imagine going from really caring for or loving a person to just completely crossing them out've my life unless something drastic happened (cheated, lied about something huge, etc)
     
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 5:52am) in reply to rivverkiller

    aside from middle school "relationships" I've only had one serious gf, started when I was 13 and she was 15(brag) and I still talk to her regularly. I'll prob end up marrying the girl tbh. I've known that she's a keeper for a while, but she sealed it when she sent me this the other day




    other than her I've had little desire to wife anyone up like that. everything else has been a fling. I've just never been a fan of getting in relationships, or having one night stands. from my childhood sweetheart I've learned that I like to deeply invest myself in a relationship, but very few girls are worth that type of investment or the hassle of discovering if they are indeed worth that type of investment. on the other hand, one night stands don't allow for enough time to fully explore the sexual nature of a girl. but that fling thing is right in the groove.

    my ex is extremely territorial tho, and when we're together she won't under any circumstance be cool with me being buddy buddy with a girl that I've slept with, which is fine be me because I wasn't emotionally invested in the first place, and the only girls besides her that I'm close with are friends that I would never have sex with. win win imo
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 5:55am) in reply to SevenCostanza

     
    Originally Posted by SevenCostanza View Post

    The night before my ex and I had been chatting online and asked if such and such weekend would work. The next day I was walking down the street with my girlfriend and the ex called to say she booked the flight. So I just said "That was my friend XXXXX. She's coming to visit in two weeks. And just for full disclosure, she's my ex-girlfriend. Not that it should make a difference." And she's like "I don't see why it would." And then we went back to whatever we were talking about before.

    thats simply not true
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 6:01am) in reply to SevenCostanza

     
    Originally Posted by SevenCostanza View Post

    The night before my ex and I had been chatting online and asked if such and such weekend would work. The next day I was walking down the street with my girlfriend and the ex called to say she booked the flight. So I just said "That was my friend XXXXX. She's coming to visit in two weeks. And just for full disclosure, she's my ex-girlfriend. Not that it should make a difference." And she's like "I don't see why it would." And then we went back to whatever we were talking about before.

    It must fucking suck to have a 3rd grade education.
     
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 6:02am) in reply to Rocky

    My ex just bought me a > $100 bday gift...Im not quite sure how to respond tho
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 6:07am) in reply to The Alchemist

    Pretty sure a fling is a relationship. Just your cool way of trying to say you don't get in a relationship.

    Next time say you only court girls. I like that better

    Meh...maybe you've really convinced yourself that you don't have relationships.
    Edited By: dolphin13 Jul 7th, 2011 at 06:09 AM
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 6:09am) in reply to sacaniga

    Do I actively talk to any of them or would consider any of them close friends?...... fuck no.

    Am I friends or aqquaintances w/ a couple...... yes.

    Would I hang w/ them in a group setting......... no doubt.

    Would I attend any solo or semi-solo activity........ not a chance in hell.

    I still hear shit from my pyscho ol lady for relationships Ive had w/ girls from middle school and beyond. Middle school ffs! Im almost 30 fwiw. Some women and their insecurities are a motherfucker.
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 6:10am) in reply to MissBecky

     
    Originally Posted by MissBecky View Post

    so much for you keeping a secret.

    i lol'd
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 6:12am) in reply to blufhard

    only if I feel like I can actually pull off getting a 3some.
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 6:14am) in reply to sacaniga

     
    Originally Posted by sacaniga View Post

    thats simply not true

    I can see doubting whether or not she meant what she said, but that is what happened.
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 6:16am) in reply to rivverkiller

     
    Originally Posted by rivverkiller View Post

    I still talk to ex's, tho most people I've dated we seperated on somewhat good terms. I still hook up with them occasionally and have also had them set me up with friends or hooked up with their friends. Really can't imagine going from really caring for or loving a person to just completely crossing them out've my life unless something drastic happened (cheated, lied about something huge, etc)

    This.
     
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 6:18am) in reply to dolphin13

     
    Originally Posted by dolphin13 View Post

    Pretty sure a fling is a relationship. Just your cool way of trying to say you don't get in a relationship.

    Next time say you only court girls. I like that better

    Meh...maybe you've really convinced yourself that you don't have relationships.


    lol shut up stupid. doubt a couple weeks of sex counts as a relationship.
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 6:27am) in reply to The Alchemist

    You've only been with one girl for more than two weeks?

    You've got more issues than me.

    What is it, mommy left you when you were little? Dad cheated on moms and you walked in?
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    Jul 7th, 2011 (7/7/2011 6:31am) in reply to dolphin13

    fuck no
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