Will keep as short as possible.

Have been single 6 months, out of a 7 year relationship (am 29 years old). Have been wiling out and sleeping with/talking to a bunch of chicks (total brag). Have made a ton of mistakes with girls that has costed me ass, but continue to learn and am now not totally sure what I want.

Had a 1 night stand in Vegas (actually 2 different 1 night stands over 2 nights) but one of the girls ended up living like 40 minutes away from my hometown. Was essentially just drunken, hot, random sex....but I got her number and hit her up when I got home. We have been getting together for drinks, and sex once a week since the vegas hook up. When we hang out it is a total gf experience as far as like giving PDA and cuddling/staying the night, have taken showers together.....she is hot, and the sex is good and I really couldn't ask for anything more.

So a week ago I get a txt from her that says "hey, not to take anything too serious but I want you to know that since we are having unprotected sex that I am not having sex with anyone else, and I expect that your not either."
I responded with "you are the only person I have had sex with since the vegas hookup and I like how fun and easy things are."
That was the end of the txt chain, and we don't ever really txt or talk on the phone at all other then to make plans to hang out.

So last night I get way drunk, and we have sex at her place (every other time its been my place) and after we are done having sex I ask her "what was that txt all about" and I told her that "I like her and I got a little emo and told her I wasn't looking for anything, but I like everything about her"......she just kind of acted like she was tired and we went to bed. Now I am wondering if I fucked shit up, I really wish I hadn't have said anything, and just kind of see where things go, but now I can't stop thinking that I potentially fucked up. Am I over reacting/reading too much into it.....or could have telling her that I like her actually messed things up?

I think i'm going to just let things simmer and hit her up again on Monday to see if she wants to hang out on Tuesday, but I am totally lost as far as where we stand....I also have no idea what I really want. I do like her more then anyone since my breakup, i guess im just having a hard time taking things slow.

Thanks to anyone who reads/actually gives valuable input.

The pictures don't due her justice. She has a hot little body and is very pretty.



I created a photo bucket account, and uploaded another pic.

she likes you...and pretty soon if you don't commit she is gonna quit having sex with you. Seems from your post that you dig her too....why not date her?

also, please post pics

What the hell is this Dr. Phil?

Pics of girl or GTFO

make plans with her for this weekend. say you just want to go to dinner + something fun like mini golf/bowling- whatever you both enjoy. stay sex-free that night. if you still have a great time and good convos you should prob. give her a chance. let her know your situation and that you want to take things slow but don't just throw away a potentially good thing.

i know that she is coming out of a couple long relationships, and when we were first making plans to hang out she said she "didn't want a bf".....I know that is shouldn't have said anything about the txt, but i was drunk and it all just kind of came out in the moment.
The next morning (this morning) she seemed to just go on like nothing happened, and I did the same. It seems like she would have initiated the talk when i brought shit up in the first place last night. I agree that doing something that doesn't involve getting wasted and banging is a good idea, but I think I need to let things simmer a little. I know that we are both free on tuesday, so I think that would be a good night to get together....i'll probably give her a call monday and see if she is up for it, until then im going to give her a little space.

 

Originally Posted by LVpokerdealer

she actually seems like a cool chick from what OP has said. Def seems like OP likes her as well. Go for it bro, date her. You got like a 24 hr window to smooth things over because it seems like she was upset at the thought of you just wanting to bang her and not date.

Once again, post the fucking pics

I don't think she is mad at all, maybe a little put off but i think we are cool......im going to see if we are cool to chill without the talk, but the talk and agreeing to date is the hail marry if she isn't want to hang with me otherwise.

Looks like a ghost or am I missin something

a ha, u edited

If you're only banging one chick for 6 months, you're in something serious, whether you want to admit it or not.

 

Originally Posted by monteaz

banged a bunch of chicks in the past 6 months

Then she has a valid concern. Good luck with that.

Yeah cute, I like pigtails. Her reaction of being tired and not responding is a bluff. She cares. Now if you want to be serious the next "date" better seal the deal. If you just let it go and don't adress the situation she will start looking else where. No matter what, gg you are doing fine. It's up to you if you want a relationship or want to be single and crush.

 

Originally Posted by monteaz

Oh, and ignore the OKcupid thing on the bottom of the page....i had to upload is somewhere to post it. I didn't find her on Ok nor has she ever been on the site.

you uploaded her pic onto the dating site okcupid just post it here?? have you heard of photobucket, imageshack, tinypic, anything?

and this

TL;DR but i would go with an abortion.

So you've only had unprotected sex with two girls? I'm guessing the first was your long term GF and the second is just some random chick who you met in Vegas??? That makes absolutely no sense to me.

lol, I'm a special kind of retard.

I posted it, and then erased as soon as i put it up......i'm legit