lol I highly doubt he "found out his wife was into it."

It wasn't like they got married and talked about it over breakfast. "Hey, I'm a swinger." "O rly? Me too! How convenient!"

cleverclogs... i'll have to use that

me and my ex never did the full on like couples parties and shit, but im guessing yogi probably progressed like we did.. You get enticed about a poss threesome, then once you both are on board and you end up going through with it, you get hooked/and or hang out with people that are similar and then it just evolves..

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lol oh, I thought you meant they just kinda figured it out after they got married.

Sorry, not much sleep last night. Carry on.

<SPAN>Just saw this thread and I had to LMAO, but here are some answers for you.

When my wife and I got together and it was obvious we were going to be together for the long run, she told me that she was bisexual and really hoped I was cool with it because she couldn't see herself giving up that part of her life. Now this is where most guys say DUH!!!!!, but don't be so quick on that response, there are a lot of guys that do actually have a problem with seeing their wives be given orgasms by other women and having their eyes roll into the back of their heads in sexual bliss, as it seems to threaten their manhood.

We sat and talked at length about all the possibilities and situations and it became clear that we had exactly the same philosophies on sex and relationships.<SPAN> </SPAN>Both of us believe there is SEX, MAKING LOVE and then there is FUCKING!!<SPAN> </SPAN>Sex and Fucking have nothing to do with love, but instead are what we believe to be natural human needs that need to be satisfied.<SPAN> </SPAN>Now some will say you can experience all 3 with your spouse and we agree and do indeed have all 3 with each other, but we also both believe that it is not natural (our belief), nor is it realistic for most humans to be fully satisfied having 1 sexual partner for the rest of our lives.<SPAN> </SPAN>We believe it is perfectly natural for us to be sexually attracted to other people and want to taste that forbidden fruit (so to speak) and we trust and love each other so completely that not only does it not bother us, but we want share that with each other.</SPAN>

<SPAN>We decided to check out a few swingers sites and proceeded to set up accounts on a few to see what would come of it all.<SPAN> </SPAN>We found a few nice couples and got to talking with them in our area and decided to go to dinner with one of the couples that we had a connection with.<SPAN> </SPAN>This couple had been in the lifestyle for a few years (not old and ugly btw) and were very patient with us and let us go at our own speed.<SPAN> </SPAN>We all hit it off very well and the second time we got together the girls ended up naked and needless to say it was quite the show for the guys (guys did not join in the first night).<SPAN> </SPAN>The second night the girls invited us guys to join in and the other woman took me and Mrs. Yogi took him.<SPAN> </SPAN>It was a MAJOR turn-on for me to watch Mrs. Yogi getting pleased by another guy while I was pleasing his wife that I knew this was going to be a great part of our life together.</SPAN>

<SPAN>How often we do it all depends on how busy our lives are at the time.<SPAN> </SPAN>We have a 4 year old daughter so we have to plan well to make sure we have a sitter, but I would say that we “swing” on average of twice a month or so.<SPAN> </SPAN>Sometimes we simply go to a swingers club either with other couples or by ourselves and meet some new couples/single bi women/single men, depending on our mood that night.<SPAN> </SPAN>Sometimes we go to or host a house party for a few of our more regular swinger friends and have an all out orgy with naked bodies everywhere (if we host our daughter is with my parents or something, but never in the house).</SPAN>

<SPAN>There are people of all shapes, sizes, ages, etc etc in the swinging lifestyle and you choose who you decide to “play” with and what you decide to do when in a get together situation.<SPAN> </SPAN>In a large group setting like a house party, there will be some that do more watching than “playing” and some that are like the energizer bunny and never stop, but you do find your comfort zone and it is truly a blast!</SPAN>

<SPAN>This lifestyle is NOT for everyone and I respect that completely, but I assure you there are WAY more of us than you think there are and I can all but guarantee that you know people that are swingers, but you just don’t know that that they are and you probably would never imagine it in a million years.<SPAN> </SPAN>Mrs. Yogi and myself love this lifestyle and have found the perfect partners in each other, and I hope everyone else here is lucky enough to find the same regardless of your preferences!</SPAN>

<SPAN>I hope this answers some of your questions, but as always, ask away if you have more!</SPAN>

<SPAN>Yogi</SPAN>

funny you say that about the bracelets, because there are a few different things to help notify others that you are a swinger while remaining incognito to the vanilla world, but there has yet to be one standard and I hope there will be soon.

The one I like the most is a pin of a cameleon sitting on a branch and if the branch is yellow you are straight but if it's pink you are bisexual.

Love this idea.