Ok, sooo, Ive been dating a lot lately, and i have been pretty bored for the most part with the girls that Ive been goin out with... But a few months ago I was at a happy hour on a friday night with a few freinds, and I was talking to this one girl, but my attention was quickly averted when i saw this other girl at the end of the bar, she wasnt drop dead gorgeous, but she was very pretty, and cute, and there was something about her that drew me to her... So I introduced the girl that i was talkin to a freind of mine, excused myself from the convo, and approached the girl at the end of the bar, and we started talking, and hit it off immediatly

we talked for the rest of the nite, and it turned out that even though we were pretty far from home, she lived only about 6 blocks away from me... after all of our friends had already left us for other bars(not that we really cared) we ended up sharing a cab home...

one thing leads to another, and she ends up stayin over my house...no sex, but we made out a lil bit, and whatever... she stuck around most of the day saturday and then left b/c she had plans that nite, and so did i... I actually had another date that nite with a girl that i was excited about goin out with, but couldnt get the girl from nite before out of my head...

i called her that next week, we ended up goin out to dinner, and then out for a few drinks and i had more fun with her then i had with a girl in a long time... we were def hitting it off..

we went out about 4-5 more times, including spending a nice snowday together just sitting around on the couch doin nothin...

Now, she is in law school, which maybe it was getting to busy for her...or whatever...but out of nowhere, she just dissapeared....

we had plans to go to a concert 3 weeksago, and i called her to tell her that i had gotten the tickets(they werent easy to get) and no answer, i figured she was still at the library or whatever, and she would call me back....

a week later, no call back, so i tried calling again...no answer, no call back.... I waited another week, and still...nothing....

I just dont understand... she called me and asked me to go to the concert, why would she do that if she was planning on not talkin to me again?

and also the last time that we hung out, she kept saying how she was so happy she met me, and that she was having so much fun with me, and that she was very happy with where this was going...and normally that would freak me out...but i liked this one...so it didnt...

i know that some of u will say....PICS OR GTFO, but there are no pics, so dont bother...she has any and all pics that we had taken together....

i see 3 possible scenarios

1. she got back with her exboyfriend

2. she was married and dude was out of town for 2 weeks or something

3. she has the aids and liked you too much to give it to you.

STOP POSTING.

Geez man. I donno how you did that, but seriously, stop hitting the post button.

sorry about the multible posts, the other one, i was halfway thru the post and it went to an error screen, i figured i lost it and started again... i dont know how it posted so many times...

1) very possible, even though she said that her last bf was over a year ago, and was only for a few months, but whos to say she wasnt dating someone else..

2) i doubt it, b/c she is 23, and in LawSchool, and lives with 2 roomates...

3) LOL

I thought about doin that, but I just wanted to see what others thought b4 i did it, i dont wanna come off as a stalker, but I do think that after 3 dates(we went out about4-6 times) that I deserve some type of explanation....

Where are the f 'ing PICS??

two possibilities

she's dead or she doesn't want to talk to you anymore.

im going with the latter. no offense of course.

conclusion: they are all whores.

1. Did you ever go to her place?

2. Ever meet any of her friends and or roomates?

3. Who was she at the bar with?? By herself?

A family emergency may have came up, but highly unlikely, I say she had a dude who she thought it was over with and got back with him and she really liked him. Honestly she don't owe you an explanation, so don't expect one.

I have dated girls who I wasnt that interested in at the time, but dated them for a bit, left them alone, call them up or run into them about month or two later, then later would tell me how they were dating this guy when we started talking again and just blow him off, so it happens.

Don't be pushy/stalkerish (call, write letter, driving by her house), if you are you will not have a shot at her when he leaves her again, he did it once he probably will do it again. I mean it may seem bad to take the broken pieces, but chances are she was semi-rebounding anyways.

Also,

When a girl tells you they broke up/separated x time ago, take x and BS stamp it, 90% of the time that number is EXPANDED to make them seem like they are not just getting out of a situation and are ready for whatever. Just rebound that basketball..

[x] fails without pics

she probably didnt want a serious relationship right now, and probably really liked you (maybe not ) seems that way though. Girls are nuts, and she probably cut you out so she wouldnt have to think about you.

You seem to be doing fine with the ladys, so if you do get a hold of her, tell her the truth. Even if its GTFO, at least you no how she feels.

If I was you, I would just go over to her apartment and masturbate outside her window.

if shes in law school it is possible that shes really busy studying and stuff...strange that she wouldn't return any of your calls if that were the case tho...imo it's more likely that she got scared...she might have felt like she led u on and u liked her more then she liked u so she just bounced rather then being mature and honest with you..=( i hope it's just that she's busy w/school tho!