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Heartless or reasonable to dump/divorce your partner for becoming fat?

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  1. The Spewtard The Spewtard is offline

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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:25pm)

    Im obv not talking about people that are already fat. Im talking about those who were once skinny but became fat and by fat I mean moderately overweight to obese to the point where you are just not attracted to them anymore. Not speaking for myself but know of a few guys in similar situations who are not attracted to their fat wives anymore but pretty much feel stuck with them.

    I personally feel like physical attraction is a big part of the relationship even though that might seem shallow, I think its pretty reasonable and I could see myself laying down the law if my future wife (if that ever happens) started putting on the pounds.

    Wug thoughts OT?
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  2. jesterwords jesterwords is offline

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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:29pm) in reply to The Spewtard

    once you have kids with them and you are married without a prenup

    unless you wanna give up more than half of your assets, yea, you're stuck with them
  3. Sandman_Good Sandman_Good is offline

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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:31pm) in reply to jesterwords

    no comment at this point in time.
  4. Paki_Poker Paki_Poker is offline

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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:31pm) in reply to Sandman_Good

    If the attraction isn't there....move on.

    Even more important...don't get married.
     
  5. jesterwords jesterwords is offline

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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:32pm) in reply to Paki_Poker

     
    Originally Posted by Paki_Poker View Post

    If the attraction isn't there....move on.

    Even more important...don't get married.

    ^^^that
  6. Glo4m Glo4m is offline Confess to me

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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:36pm) in reply to jesterwords

    you have no business breaking down smokecocks marriage like that you asshole
  7. PoWdA PoWdA is offline Waco nuthugger

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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:37pm) in reply to Glo4m

    Heartless yes, but i did it anyway (gf tho, not wife, your buddies are fucked).
  8. smokerock247 smokerock247 is offline

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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:38pm) in reply to PoWdA

    my wife isnt fucking fat, i posted a pic of her in a bikini ffs the pic where she looks bloated is just a fucking bad angle jesus mother fucking christ allah
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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:39pm) in reply to smokerock247

    if you're worried about this before you get married, you probably shouldn't get married. ever.
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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:42pm) in reply to saxman

    i missed pics of smokecocks festively plump wife? link please?
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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:42pm) in reply to smokerock247

     
    Originally Posted by smokerock247 View Post

    my wife isnt fucking fat, i posted a pic of her in a bikini ffs the pic where she looks bloated is just a fucking bad angle jesus mother fucking christ allah

    link?
  12. SirLiesAlot SirLiesAlot is offline

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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:42pm) in reply to smokerock247

     
    Originally Posted by smokerock247 View Post

    my wife isnt fucking fat, i posted a pic of her in a bikini ffs the pic where she looks bloated is just a fucking bad angle jesus mother fucking christ allah

    Really? When/where?
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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:44pm) in reply to SirLiesAlot

    http://www.pocketfives.com/f13/i-nom...sident-656072/
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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:45pm) in reply to Glo4m

    i don't get why ppl always go nuts about the whole giving half their money up when they get divorced thing like they didn't know it was gonna happen. Try marrying someone who isn't completely broke and you'll get half their shit too lol. Like i'm not saying the marital laws are kind of stupid and unfair and stuff, but like, don't act like completely blind sided when divorce time comes around and now u have to pay up... I'm not commenting on you jester, just in general.

    As for OP it's probably kind of heartless, but if they are just letting their weight go it's probably going to end in u cheatin on em or hating them. Women who get fat in America just for the hell of it tilt the shit out of me. It's like stop eating so fuckin much, you don't see that shit nearly as much in likE europe/south america. People actually eat non-shitty food tho.
  15. coolhandkev coolhandkev is offline

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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:51pm) in reply to AMARTIN1181

    It's an unfortunate part of life. Girls get fat most of the time. You gotta marry an active one and stay active with her imo

    I don't think I'd divorce for fat tho, but I would definitely speak up and get her to the gym if possible.
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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:54pm) in reply to coolhandkev

    IMO if you tell them that you'd like to start working out/eating healthier and they don't take any initiative then it's not heartless.
  17. jesterwords jesterwords is offline

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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 3:54pm) in reply to kmc28

    no hard feelings amartin
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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 4:04pm) in reply to kmc28

    and the winner is Paki... Dont get Married!!
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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 4:06pm) in reply to Glo4m

     
    Originally Posted by Glo4m View Post

    http://www.pocketfives.com/f13/i-nom...sident-656072/

    Oh how did I miss this A+ thread. Great gif by Smokey too. lol
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  20. Mr Galt Mr Galt is offline sister-in-law's a ho

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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 4:08pm) in reply to Bigblind Popper

     
    Originally Posted by Bigblind Popper View Post

    i missed pics of smokecocks festively plump wife? link please?

    You can see them on google earth.
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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 4:13pm) in reply to Mr Galt

     
    Originally Posted by Mr Galt View Post

    You can see them on google earth.

    LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL.

    But seriously, these American women are messed up. They hear on TV that guys are not supposed to tell them they're getting fat, so they get mad if the guy tell them that. That's the problem.

    When my gf put on 5 pounds, I told her. When I put on pounds, she told me. Now we go to the gym together. You should be able to tell your partner if they're gaining weight. You shouldn't be an asshole about it, but this whole "hush hush" thing that you guys in the US do is kinda stupid IMO
  22. Pghfan987 Pghfan987 is offline

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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 4:22pm) in reply to edwardt1988

    If you are going to divorce someone after they gain weight, what is the point of marrying them in the first place?
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  23. Glo4m Glo4m is offline Confess to me

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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 4:24pm) in reply to Pghfan987

    pro tip: date/marry someone who is in a line of work that requires them to be fit.
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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 4:28pm) in reply to Glo4m

    Divorcing a wife if she gets fat is one thing, if you're going to end it over that, you def shouldnt have married her in the first place.

    Breaking up with a GF is a must if they let themselves go and blimp up. Take some pride in yourself, ffs.
    Edited By: ajedrez Jan 13th, 2012 at 04:28 PM
  25. smokerock247 smokerock247 is offline

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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 4:31pm) in reply to ajedrez

    ITT:

    lonely fucks who have no idea what its like to be in true love with a woman

    my wife could weigh 300 lbs and i wouldnt give a fuck, shes a great woman

    I feel sorry for any of you that dont know the feeling im talking about, seriously
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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 4:33pm) in reply to smokerock247

     
    Originally Posted by smokerock247 View Post

    ITT:

    lonely fucks who have no idea what its like to be in true love with a woman

    my wife could weigh 300 lbs and i wouldnt give a fuck, shes a great woman

    I feel sorry for any of you that dont know the feeling im talking about, seriously

    Did she go on that weightwatchers plan?
  27. jesterwords jesterwords is offline

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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 4:36pm) in reply to edwardt1988

    loving someone unconditionally has nothing to do with marriage
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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 4:36pm) in reply to smokerock247

     
    Originally Posted by smokerock247 View Post

    ITT:

    lonely fucks who have no idea what its like to be in true love with a woman

    my wife could weigh 300 lbs and i wouldnt give a fuck, shes a great woman

    I feel sorry for any of you that dont know the feeling im talking about, seriously

    Wow, this might be the one post from smokerock i actually agree with. Real nice dude. I agree, I'm engaged and been with my fiance for over 3 years, she is super health conscious but for about 6 months she let herself go b/c she just stressed with work, school, other family situations, and didn't have time to work out and ate a lot. But she is back to working out, etc, and she always thought I didn't love her during that time cause she gained a little weight (wasn't even fat really, but she felt liek she was). I don't really care either if she puts on a few pounds, I'm marrying my best friend. Nothing quite like it.
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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 4:39pm) in reply to jesterwords

     
    Originally Posted by jesterwords View Post

    loving someone unconditionally has nothing to do with marriage

    it has EVERYTHING to do with marriage
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    Jan 13th, 2012 (1/13/2012 4:41pm) in reply to ajedrez

     
    Originally Posted by ajedrez View Post

    Divorcing a wife if she gets fat is one thing, if you're going to end it over that, you def shouldnt have married her in the first place.

    Breaking up with a GF is a must if they let themselves go and blimp up. Take some pride in yourself, ffs.

    I disagree here. I think you could marry the most amazing woman in the world but if she gets fat to the point of being unattractive to the point where its not really enjoyable to have sex with her then there's a problem.
    I think its each person's duty to be aesthetically pleasing to the other. Marriage and kids shouldn't be an excuse to let yourselves go imo.
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