Originally Posted by FouTight

the key to pwning haters is to ignore them. I had to do it to some when i first joined. (works WONDERS at the live poker tables too)

Glo4m i am not impressed that you are one of the haters :( you usually bring so much good to threads

got that already. we have bunch of candles from TAO in Vegas. I learned this trick while doing my research to get girls to notice me.

hey bro i looked for like 10years trying to find a girl that isnt a drama queen. Some hide it for longer then others is the result of my experience. They all bring the drama eventually.

Ive heard rumors of guys saying their girls never do drama bombs but ive yet to meet one.

Im not hating and she looks cute but how can everyone tell she's hot just from that pic??? can barely see her face, let alone her body.

I recommend taking a vacation together, that's always a good thing. Poker can really drain any desire to be a romantic, so i feel you on that. Take her somewhere warm or somewhere historic. Take a drive to Quebec City, lovely up there even when it's cold. Pretend that stupid bs that women talk about interests you, and then u can go back to being lazy and disinterested for a few months before she gets pissed again.

And wtf tell her to drive her fucking own damn self to the gym

im actually going to do the herseys kiss thing right now. Ive got 3hours to find everything, gl me

I'd not get her hersheys - those things are vomit inducing. Get some decent euro chocolate... Srsly she'll love you forever...

Do some stuff like write cute notes like, "I love you", "you're the best thing that ever happened to me", "I miss you when you're away"... Leave them in her sandwich box or make up bag so she finds them at work- but not when her boss is going to be there!
One note every 4-5 days is enough - don't make it old too soon.
These will probably work better than an sms - but sms will work if either of you are away from each other.

Cook her dinner, set the table with candles, get some nice wine. Doesn't have to be cordon bleu - just something you make a bit of effort with.

Give up a night with your mates to go out with her - depends on the girl but making a sacrifice for her will show her she's really important.

Watch some crap chick flick instead of whatever you want to watch for a night.

Go for a picnic - doesn't have to be difficult. You can get ready made food. Don't forget the wine and a blanket to sit on. Plan where you're going in advance. If the weather is shitty then do it in your house - srsly, a blanket with a picnic laid out in your living room will work well.

Write a poem - depends on her personality but you could make it funny/sexy/sentimental. It doesn't have to be a work of art it's the thought that counts, blah blah blah.

Buy her a gift when it's not her birthday/Christmas - could be something small like a scarf or you could splash out and get her a weekend at a spa with massage etc.

Also if she's really in love with your pet dog - get something cute for the dog - this is far less obvious that you're trying to suck up to her but will work well.

Take her with you next time you go to the casino... lol... worth a try?

One last suggestion- finger up the ... no wait, ignore that. :D

Ps. She may think writing on the mirror is a bit weird - like you see in horror films.

 

Originally Posted by kmc28

just don't write it in blood and you'll be ok.

what about menstrual blood? I think there should be an exception.

doesnt show up well afaik

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i've dug deep into my bag of magic and here is what I am willing to share.

Take her bagFISHING. ok...ok.. you saying aloud right now.. WTF is B~A~G~F~I~S~H~I~N~G?

SHut up...i'm about to tell you. I"m not going to go into great detail because if it's from you..it should be "from you".

Ok, step one. Get a box of zip lock sandwich bags and place something "memorable" from your past. Whether it be a "reeses peanut butter cup" from a prior adventure.. OOPS... sorry, from YOUR memories...not mine. Now, where was I? Oh yeah, I'll try to give you another example. Say she mentioned something in passing that she liked. (small enough to fit in the bag) Identify several things, a piece of jewelry, tix to a movie, photo, or WHATEVER.

Step 2: Get a few stick and tie some string to the end.... like a FISHING...pole, then attache the bag to the other end.

Step 3: Hide the bags and lay the sticks out somewhere where they look like they were there naturally. (using fishing line... you never notice the line)

Step 4: Take your squeeze for a little walk and introduce her to bag...fishing. GEt her to pick up a stick and start "reeling" it in (pulling the string) to find out what she has caught.

THis is Bagfishing.

The effort you put into this... the thought, the reflection is one of hundreds of way to tell her you're thinking about her....even when she's not with you.

SCORE!!! Touchdown. GL and go Giants.

Oh snap, Z-Fresh just won this thread. Sweet monthly themes too!

lollllll nj

Now how are you going to top yourself on Valentines Day tho

Fou, your girl is hot. Well done. I have been with my wife for 12 years. You need to get creative to keep them happy and to avoid any of these "important talks". A couple things I have done for my wife:
1) Left work early to make her supper. Also prepared her a hot bubble bath and lit about 5 or 6 candles in the bathroom and shut off the lights. Had everything she needed in the room. IPAD, glass of wine and her housecoat. When she came through the door, I meet her and take her bags and tell her that she is relaxing the rest of the night. I show her supper, we eat and I also purchase her favorite dessert ( I cannot bake) to be enjoyed later. Then lead her to the bathroom where she can enjoy her hot bubble bath and wine. When she is done, I make her a bed on the couch ( not sure why but she always liked having a bed made on the couch) and we watch her favorite shows. Girls love this. It makes them feel special ( and they are). The night should end with a back rub and sexin.
2) I have done this a couple of times. Once I had to travel for work and miss her birthday. I knew about this a couple of weeks ahead of time and decided to do something special. I bought her a few gifts and decided to make a "treasure hunt" out of it. So on the morning of her birthday, I texted her to go into one of the drawers in our sons room where there was a birthday card for her. This card then gave her a hint where she could find her next gift ( it was at my desk - we worked in the same building). That gift then had another hint as to where she could find her next gift ( in the basement of our house). Before she went home for lunch, I had already had a dozen roses delivered to her desk. When she went home for lunch to get her final gift, the note told her to not worry about supper as I had taken care of everything. When she got home after work, I had delivery from her favorite restaurant arranged with her favorite cake ( in place of a birthday cake). She loved it. It was her birthday and I wanted to make her feel special. You don't have to do this just on their birthdays. Do it anytime.
Also, I know it sounds gay but depending on the type of girl you have she may love having a short love letter inserted in the pocket of her coat that says " I just wanted you to know that I appreciate you and love you alot".
IT really doesnt take much for alot of girls to be happy. Best of luck.

thats some "ttt" there.

what ever happened to the open relationship OP was having?

I was gonna read and contribute but then i scrolled to the pic and it was so cute and romantic. I'd hit it!