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How do I talk with girls? EDIT: UPDATED! 7-14-09 Prob. Final Update.

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  1. Niceguy Niceguy is offline I will find you.

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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 8:33pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

     
    Originally Posted by Defndrofangels View Post

    Okay I talked with her today and I think it's over. She kinda wasn't responding being friendly with me. GG. Pron and poker FTW. Thanks for the advice all, but I realized if they don't like me for who I am, fuck em. I would like to think I'd make a good b/f, but that's just me. Anyways gonna go grind for the 5x FTP points.

    staying after work to talk to someone who is still working is just creepy. Lesson learned getum next time
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 8:37pm) in reply to Niceguy

    gotta nail her in the photocopier room
  3. Jaybone2315 Jaybone2315 is offline Professional Couch Ruiner

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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 8:38pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    you know that feeling you get when you watch somone on TV embarrass themselves and you immed feel embarrassed too.

    thats how I feel right now.

    Dont worry tho man... get em next time.
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 8:45pm) in reply to Jaybone2315

     
    Originally Posted by Jaybone2315 View Post

    you know that feeling you get when you watch somone on TV embarrass themselves and you immed feel embarrassed too.

    thats how I feel right now.

    Dont worry tho man... get em next time.

    Why would you feel embarrassed? Am I missing something?
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 8:51pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    I dont enjoy seeing/hearing people fail like this.

    thats all.
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 8:58pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    Def, I admire you for taking the chance and for putting yourself out there. You're my hero. Seykota
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 8:58pm) in reply to bfactor

     
    Originally Posted by bfactor View Post

    Pay a homeless guy to run into your office with a rattle snake (or some similar well known venemous snake) that you gave to him ahead of time and throw it at her so it bites her.

    Then be like "Wow, that was weird! Don't worry guys, it's cool, I always keep my snake venom antidote kit with me for times just like these."

    Then pull out the antidote from your briefcase for the snake venom of the type of snake that bit her and inject her with the antidote.

    Then be like "Close call, good thing I saved your life."

    She'll be all like "Wow, thanks, I don't know how I can ever repay you."

    Then you can be like "I think I know a way."

    Did you think I was joking or something?

    You were supposed to actually try this.

    100.0% chance that it will work. (I mean, if she doesn't die (although theoretically it would still work if you use the "still warm" rule, so I mean, yeah))
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 9:00pm) in reply to Niceguy

    It isn't creepy. He was just trying to talk to her The worst part is she was prolly just trying to finish work in order to go home and prolly didn't stop to notice Def as much.
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 9:05pm) in reply to bfactor

    You were having a bad day judging from that other thread... Don't initiate a conversation when you're not feeling it... Plus, maybe it's just your outlook today, don't give up that easy...

    Call me Bawsten, but I got loads of advice I don't follow/am learning the hard way...
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 9:06pm) in reply to LoveHatePoker

     
    Originally Posted by LoveHatePoker View Post

    initiate

    Agreeeeeeeeee

    INITIATE THE RATTLE SNAKEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

    TID.
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 9:07pm) in reply to bfactor

    Sorry, I'm a little pumped up from all the LL2 stuff, lolz
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 9:09pm) in reply to Seykota

     
    Originally Posted by Seykota View Post

    It isn't creepy. He was just trying to talk to her The worst part is she was prolly just trying to finish work in order to go home and prolly didn't stop to notice Def as much.

    Actually she probably felt like he was going out of his way to make her his sole focus of attention.
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 9:19pm) in reply to Niceguy

    Yeah I think at this point it's worth just going all in.

    Cue the note on windshield.
     
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 9:26pm) in reply to Jaybone2315

     
    Originally Posted by Jaybone2315 View Post


    I dont enjoy seeing/hearing people fail like this.

    thats all.

    Oh yea thanks for the support. I try hard...
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 9:29pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    if it makes you feel any better... i fail so hard all the time with women.
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 9:32pm) in reply to the_snail03

     
    Originally Posted by the_snail03 View Post

    Yeah I think at this point it's worth just going all in.

    Cue the note on windshield.

    Good call imo

    I would go with the standard "Behiiiiiiiiiiiind youuuuuuuu..." windshield note.

    Stand in the shadows near her car, and when she reads the note and nervously turns around after reading it, step forward out of the shadows, into view, and wave slowly with a friendly smile on your face.
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 9:34pm) in reply to Jaybone2315

    ok man, take this fwiw but you haven't screwed up yet. Now that you've made it obvious that you are interested just back off. Be nice but nonchalant and maybe a little aloof, speak when spoken to and all that. She'll wonder why you are not paying her attention any more and initiate it herself. Just give it time now and stop obsessing.
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 9:35pm) in reply to bfactor

    Meh. Breaking into her car with a hanger and setting some flowers on the seat with a note works better.

    Maybe even dress up in a bumble bee suit so you don't leave any sort of nasty odor or hair follicles behind.
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    Jul 14th, 2009 (7/14/2009 9:36pm) in reply to MyJobisYou

     
    Originally Posted by MyJobisYou View Post

    Meh. Breaking into her car with a hanger and setting some flowers on the seat with a note works better.

    Maybe even dress up in a bumble bee suit so you don't leave any sort of nasty odor or hair follicles behind.

    sick call
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    Jul 15th, 2009 (7/15/2009 12:34am) in reply to ginwilly

     
    Originally Posted by ginwilly View Post

    ok man, take this fwiw but you haven't screwed up yet. Now that you've made it obvious that you are interested just back off. Be nice but nonchalant and maybe a little aloof, speak when spoken to and all that. She'll wonder why you are not paying her attention any more and initiate it herself. Just give it time now and stop obsessing.

    This.
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    Jul 15th, 2009 (7/15/2009 3:58am) in reply to andrewkr80

     
    Originally Posted by andrewkr80 View Post

     
    Originally Posted by ginwilly View Post

    ok man, take this fwiw but you haven't screwed up yet. Now that you've made it obvious that you are interested just back off. Be nice but nonchalant and maybe a little aloof, speak when spoken to and all that. She'll wonder why you are not paying her attention any more and initiate it herself. Just give it time now and stop obsessing.

    This.

    I was planning to do ginwilly's suggestion after her reaction today. Yea will do. Prob this is the best course of action I can take. Anyways hopefully I'll have some news to report tomorrow.
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    Jul 15th, 2009 (7/15/2009 4:11am) in reply to Defndrofangels

    Give her donuts now son, she'll come crawling back.

    Do you even know if she's single?
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