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Edited By: RioMata Aug 17th, 2010 at 04:54 AMI was with a girl for around 8 yrs. I'm 25. In a lot of ways we grew super close throughout that time. But a lot of things changed in both of us. I won't go into those things, they arent important. We've been broken up for almost 2 months.
Basically the point of this thread is this: When, if ever, is it ok for a friend of mine to start hanging out with my ex girlfriend? The situation is this- I have known this dude since I was 7 yrs old. We weren't extremely close growing up but close enough to where I could talk to him about anything, would hang out sometimes etc. Last time I was in my hometown where my parents live, also where this friend lives, we had been hanging out and just so happens that one of the nights, my ex was out as well. It was ok, we still get along and have some of the same friends. At one point in the night we were in seperate places and my friend left me and another guy to go hang out with said ex. He didn't say anything, or even come back for that matter. Since then, I have came back up to where I live but still notice that they are hanging out A LOT. I'm not the jealous type really, but it just seems fucked up that he wouldn't say something to me. Not even mention, hey dude, I kinda like the girl.
Am I wrong for feeling like he isn't a friend or should I not even worry about it? I just feel like its 'guy code' not to immediately try getting with a friend's ex right when they break up. It may have had something to do with being in the military and watching out for other guys' wives/girlfriends while they were on deployment and not letting guys try to get them to cheat. I dunno. I'm confused over it all, still have some feelings for her, am trying to get over it etc etc.
I could never bang a friend's ex unless there had been a significant amount of time after they broke up, or I had at least mentioned it to him...
Edit: Sorry, only pics I can get are on Facebook and they won't attach. Not too good at posting yet on the new pp5's site.
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She looks pretty hot.
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starts the slow clap... well done my friend. well done.Originally Posted by LeftyMark
She looks pretty hot.
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He was your guidance counselor?Originally Posted by RioMata
We weren't extremely close growing up but close enough to where I could talk to him about anything
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I don't think it's ever okay, not after 8 years. That bitch should have some common decency and go fuck someone you don't know, and your friends shouldn't have been skheming on your girl for 8 years and then boom, wanting to hit it right when you break up. Disrespectful from both sides of it. I remember in college I had a friend start going with the girl I had been with, that shit sucks and ruins friendships.
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this shit is tilting, she isn't with you, get over it. You are a grown ass man with the ability to find new stuff to poke, or love, whatever. So who cares if a guy you know is trying to date her.
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lol gtfo choco. Yeah you can say that or whatever but it's still gonna piss u the fk off
Edited By: AMARTIN1181 Aug 17th, 2010 at 01:16 AM
edit: actually, gtfo op where are the pics, chocho is entitlted to his opinion! -
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8 years? Never OK. Not Now. Not Ever. Get Real.
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You were together for 8 years and have been broken up for only 2 mos. There is VERY little chance that anything long term is going to work out with the first guy after she came off of an 8 year relationship. Yeah she may 'hang out' with him a little, but it is really unlikely that it will go anywhere serious.
Edited By: kellykip Aug 17th, 2010 at 01:23 AM
I'm with you btw - I could never do that to someone I know in the same circumstances. You are right - that is no friend. -
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Completely disrespectful on both sides. She should have enough common decency to date people you aren't friends with, and your friend should never creep in on your ex.
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so this guy thinks this girl is cool enough to date for 8 years, but people he knows and have stuff in common with shouldn't think the same about her? If you wanted to stake claim to her then you should have put a ring on it. Yeah i'm doing the single ladies dance right now in a black unitard. Just get over it, and get something hotter. Getting even is always fun.Originally Posted by ericINtheX
8 years? Never OK. Not Now. Not Ever. Get Real.
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I would never do that to my friend. I wouldn't put strain on a friendship for some chick. Relationships hardly ever work out anyway. So you won't have the girl or the friend. Sounds like a good decision.
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I doubt it just started. That guy has probably been banging this girl for years.
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Haha, who dates their boys ex? I mean after Jr High... Some of my buddies had some pretty hot womens, but I don't think the thought would have ever crossed my mind.
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8 years? Just break off contact with both of them for a long long long time. Telling them to fuck off is optional.
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yeah fuck another emo thread, tell that whore to munch on all the cock she wants and move to austin texas and build a fuckn rollercoaster in your backyard
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amartin speaks the truth
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haters gonna hate
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Edited By: ttplaya Aug 17th, 2010 at 01:43 AMthey make xxxxl leotards?Originally Posted by ChocoThunder
so this guy thinks this girl is cool enough to date for 8 years, but people he knows and have stuff in common with shouldn't think the same about her? If you wanted to stake claim to her then you should have put a ring on it. Yeah i'm doing the single ladies dance right now in a black unitard. Just get over it, and get something hotter. Getting even is always fun.
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yeah, so it should be a tight fit.Originally Posted by ttplaya
they make xxxxl leotards?
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it actually fits quite nicely tyvmOriginally Posted by Niceguy
yeah, so it should be a tight fit.
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youve known htis guy since you were 7?? she is off limits FOREVER to him, or he is a fucking pos.
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it's obvious that the other guy is a pos, but if this is what it takes to get to know a lot about the character of two people that you trusted then you got out cheap
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i'd cut all ties to both of them after that happened... srsly
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