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Edited By: EyeKnows Aug 24th, 2012 at 08:30 PMI'd say this behavior is more a function of "the chances of any negative consequences are very low" rather than of having "I will get an abortion if I happen to get pregnant" as a back-up plan. you are giving people this ignorant/impulsive too much credit for thinking more than one level ahead.Originally Posted by ECUgirl
Did you ever stop to think that maybe the number of unplanned pregnancies would go down if abortion weren't an option? If people thought they might actually have to have a baby in the event of an unplanned pregnancy, maybe they'd be more careful about preventing them. It's a lot easier to forget to take your pill, or rip off that condom in the heat of passion or whatever if you know that you can always "take care of it" if you get pregnant.
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Edited By: Realbigfish4 Aug 24th, 2012 at 08:30 PMOk, I'll play along. So let's get as crazy as your thought process and say 60% of abortions that happen now wouldnt need to happen b/c people stopped forgeting to take the pill and stop ripping condoms off. That's still around 520,000 extra babies that need to be adopted. No need to say... Youre right, a lot of these babies will remain with the parents that dont want them (many to be neglected, but thats neither here nor there). Let's say 60% of the parents that didnt want the kid decide to keep it. Thats still 208,000 kids that need homes. There's what? Around 230,000 adoptions in the US annually now? You really think that can almost double? Get real.Originally Posted by ECUgirl
Did you ever stop to think that maybe the number of unplanned pregnancies would go down if abortion weren't an option? If people thought they might actually have to have a baby in the event of an unplanned pregnancy, maybe they'd be more careful about preventing them. It's a lot easier to forget to take your pill, or rip off that condom in the heat of passion or whatever if you know that you can always "take care of it" if you get pregnant.
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I'm not going to continue to argue with you about this after this response. I will say that I work in the field of adoptions and there are lots of couples out there trying to adopt infants, and the cost has become prohibitive for a lot of couples. I do not think it's out of the question that there would be homes for these additional children.
Originally Posted by Realbigfish4
Ok, I'll play along. So let's get as crazy as your thought process and say 60% of abortions that happen now wouldnt need to happen b/c people stopped forgeting to take the pill and stop ripping condoms off. That's still around 520,000 extra babies that need to be adopted. No need to say... Youre right, a lot of these babies will remain with the parents that dont want them (many to be neglected, but thats neither here nor there). Let's say 60% of the parents that didnt want the kid decide to keep it. Thats still 208,000 kids that need homes. There's what? Around 230,000 adoptions in the US annually now? You really think that can almost double? Get real.
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Lets build some large work factories for these unwanted kids....get them to start making some cheaper products so all of our factories dont go over to China.
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You cant be real. Just b/c you meet families everyday that want to adopt babies doesn't mean there will be enough families that are able and willing to adopt the obscene increase if abortion was outlawed. We don't even need to get into what the punishment you see fit for the black market it would create. Do we just slam would be mothers and doctors into our already over crowded prison system, or should we build immense "psychiatric" facilities to house and "treat" them like we do with those that have had failed suicide attempts?
Originally Posted by ECUgirl
I'm not going to continue to argue with you about this after this response. I will say that I work in the field of adoptions and there are lots of couples out there trying to adopt infants, and the cost has become prohibitive for a lot of couples. I do not think it's out of the question that there would be homes for these additional children.
Stop letting your heart cloud your judgment. I would love every child to have a chance, but that's just not a realistic desire. I'd also love to see world peace, the abolishment of religion, the end of world hunger, and everyone to have clean running water, electricity, and a home. Maybe someday the some of these wants will come true, but we are FAR from even attempting it. Even out feeble attempts at righting these wrongs does more harm than good with the current state of the world. -
If abortion is ever banned I'm going into the coat hanger business
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David Duke?
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God obviously wanted the parents to be together. Why else would he give them a sweet baby?
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Who knew Nevada was civilized.
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Ha ecugirl decided if she's keeping niceguy's baby yet?
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how awkward are those visitations gonna be?
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I wasnt referring to any awkwardness coming from your end. I was refering to you having to be around those wackos.
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I agree with RBF here.
Edited By: fetaman Aug 26th, 2012 at 05:23 AM
I mean, bitch had it coming.
He came.
What's the big deal?
New fry guy in 14 years (*9 if Mexican, the beans age them faster due to gas methanization, and the vinegar in the salsa make's all their chipotle taco's sweet too...so side business?...Mexican401K?) is coming...to a wonderful life. -
Pulling out is not rape, it is a right.
You never pull out a gun, without a reason?
Education is about knowledge, and you dropped some in 'er - that is not rape - that is wisdom.
You have the right to wisdom, so somewhere in here, we find the magic Swagbucks (c) extra 8 cents...
42 more and we have a black M&N coming from 8 Mile YOLO - wooooooooooohoooooo.
*seriously, i am taking a leak RIGHT beside Rod Serling right now - unfucking real.
**double serious - thank you HSC for the awesome offer on the Urinal Text Pad - without it, i could not snap a shot, text, ask for his autograph, and dial my therapist.
well, how about a serious fucking question then?
too confusing?
how the fuck, does ANY rapist still live? I mean, then you want the child to know you - really?
and this is allowed?
sure, you get to see your child...for 10 seconds, as you drown in a bath prepared by Heisenburg himself - fuck...really.
society.
(flags another Crown N' Soda - diet makes me looks better so when I tell people to fuck off they actually say, "hey, that dude looks slim, I must fuck off then...")
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Originally Posted by jay_bear
Well this would suck imagine after getting rape and being forced to have the baby, your rapist has parental rights. Talk about adding insult to injury.

These are laws already on the books.
ORS 419B.500 - 419B.510 Termination upon finding child conceived as result of rape. (1) The rights of the parent may be terminated as provided in ORS 419B.500 if the court finds that the child or ward was conceived as the result of an act that led to the parent’s conviction for rape under ORS 163.365 or 163.375 or other comparable law of another jurisdiction.
(2) Termination of parental rights under subsection (1) of this section does not relieve the parent of any obligation to pay child support.
(3) Termination of parental rights under subsection (1) of this section is an independent basis for termination of parental rights and the court need not make any of the considerations or findings described in ORS 419B.502, 419B.504, 419B.506 or 419B.508. [2011 c.438 §2] -
If you are inferring that because the rapist is black, hispanic, sandniggeroid, or non-white, and as such, forfeits all rights due to an affinity for watermelon, fallafel, or camel balls on rice - well, that ignorance will NOT be tolerated here.
See you are the local foodbank, we can discuss it over there as we dine on the Family-of-9 (*with wine)-Never-Paid-a-Tax-Dime program, brought to you by Hawaii Photo-bomba Hut - you got some Muslim issues, we can bomb the shit outta your documents.
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I just legitimately raped an MTT on Merge! I forgot how fun it is to bink.
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This Law took affect in 2011? If so then the map which was based on 2010 sources would not include this update.
Originally Posted by pistol45
ORS 419B.500 - 419B.510 Termination upon finding child conceived as result of rape. (1) The rights of the parent may be terminated as provided in ORS 419B.500 if the court finds that the child or ward was conceived as the result of an act that led to the parent’s conviction for rape under ORS 163.365 or 163.375 or other comparable law of another jurisdiction.
(2) Termination of parental rights under subsection (1) of this section does not relieve the parent of any obligation to pay child support.
(3) Termination of parental rights under subsection (1) of this section is an independent basis for termination of parental rights and the court need not make any of the considerations or findings described in ORS 419B.502, 419B.504, 419B.506 or 419B.508. [2011 c.438 §2] -
Ya there is no way a girl would cum during actual rape unless she wanted to get banged...
You know I wonder if there are girls out there that want to get raped and have some weird fetish thing
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That's exactly what I thought... But I did some research and actually it's quite common for a woman to cum against her will during rape.
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This law is on the books, prior to 2011 there was no law on the books which addressed rapists' paternal rights. This map just shows a bunch of states that do not explicitly restrict parental rights for rapists. Not that shocking that it wouldn't be addressed since there were many other ways to remove parental rights besides rape convictions. I bet most of the states already have laws that apply based upon any assault or violent crime.
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Edited By: Believer82 Aug 26th, 2012 at 10:43 PMthen they have to want it in some way mentally then women are weird lol. theres just no way its that common. Girls arent like guys I mean if a guy got raped lets pretend its possible ~by a girl~ haha ya I can see thatOriginally Posted by 2JL
That's exactly what I thought... But I did some research and actually it's quite common for a woman to cum against her will during rape.
but not girls.
edit well googled it and guess your right stranggeee














