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Last weekend I was trying to explain to Cindy why I was so interested in Waco's progress at the WPT event. When I said that it was important because it was a friend of mine trying to accomplish something very impressive which also paid a lot of coin, she took the position that people I only know from the internet can't really be my friends. I obv disagree as some of the people I consider my friends on the internet, particularly (well mostly is more accurate) from P5s like Griff, Waco, Fitz, Wretchy Chaz and Hya, I speak to on a more frequent basis than my "real" friends. Those folks plus jericho, ess, bertimanti, ma zi yi and cubbie I have been talking to for a long time. So I think Im right in considering people from the internet friends as opposed to acquaintances, but I m really interested in what others think about efriends.
Obv this thread will eventually be sprinkled with pics of lovely ladies and the above list is not to be considered as saying if you aren't on it I dont consider you my friend those are just the folks I have been talking to on here the longest
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Slugger, I agree about alot of people that I have met on here I actually consider my friends. I can honestly say there are a handful of peps that I would go out of my way to help.
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Honestly, for me, I used to consider people from online "friends." But, really, until I meet someone in person, it's hard to say that anymore.
You'd be surprised how different some people are in real life compared to their online persona. Most of the people I've met online are similar in person, but there are a few that couldn't have been more different.
So, I normally hold back a bit until I've met them in person. There are a few exceptions to that, but that's just how I am for the most part.
I've definitely met a few P5ers who I now consider real friends, and not just "online friends," but again, I've met them in person. For example, I've spent a lot of time with Cougars4444 and talk to him very regularly on the phone. I genuinely consider him a friend. Same goes for Adam, Cal, Hawkhill7, Mhoddi, Dippydough,Wowswift, Utterczar, Truesyalose, Gambowler, Buchiyayo, etc. Then there are people like Murderer who I've known online now for almost 3 years. I definitely consider him a friend. I'd also put guys like Wein in that category. Lastly, there are a few people I've met only once who really are like their online selves, and I know they'd eventually be good friends if I saw them more. Guys like Realbigfish4, Chazmental, WacoKidd, FlyersGuy, LatestLines2, loopy, cmitch, etc fall into that category.
That was a bit long, but in summary, yes I consider a few to be "real friends." Others I consider close acquaintances, and others are very cool and would definitely be friends if I knew them a little better. Also, I can honestly say I've like about 95% of the people I've met from here in person. In fact, there's only one person who stands out as a real d-bag, but he hardly ever posts and I don't know if he's ever posted in OT.
I definitely consider all of OT a huge part of my life, and there are a ton of you out there who I know I'd really hit it off with if I met ya in person. -
Great post Slugg....I def. feel the same way, I really enjoy getting online and chatting with various people.
I have also tried to explain to be significant others how cool it is that I have met people throughout the world, at various ages and in different professions. Its awesome when ur in a tourney and recognize a P5er or get called to rail a fellow OTer.
I look forward to meeting people in "real" life. Its a great bunch of guys and girls. -
thanks for the disclamier slugger........................
and yes bgx people are def differnt live as on line im definitley funny live
nobody but you thinks im funny online
matbe im the rodeny dangerfeild of the online P5s world -
i had a guy really freak me out on ps once from this site he started calling me mr harrell i was like dude who the fuck are you then he told me that he was a P5er it was cool he coulda made it a lot worse scared the shit outa me
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lately i stick a lot with how BGX feels, but there are definitely people who i know are my friends without having met them in "real life."
i used to be extremely active on livejournal (pretty much quit when i had my son and became tremendously depressed again) and had some very close friends i made through that site. i ended up living with one of them for a while when i first moved to vegas. i'd met her before that once... at her wedding :) she invited some of her "online friends" because they were really her friends.
some people disparage it because it's like, "GTFO and find some REAL friends..." well, i think it's stupid to discount friendship because it lacks face to face contact. the most basic and important aspects of friendship are emphasized, if anything, online. you get to know and like people based on personality and sense of humor and common interests... i think online friendships can be more difficult to maintain but often last longer and have very strong foundations.
there's a feeling of anonymity that comes with it that allows people to open up to each other and get closer than they might normall do "in real life" as well.
for someone like me who stays home with her son, a forum like this one or similar is the best way for me to find people who i can be friends with that have interests like mine. i have been told a bunch of times to get out and meet other moms. no thanks--- most other moms around here are too different from me; ten to fifteen years older and nothing but mommies. there's nothing wrong with either of those things but the fact of the matter is i can't really talk to someone who has nothing to tell me about but their own kids. my son is my life, but he's also his own person and will move out one day, and i don't want to find myself lost and lonely in 18 years because i only cultivated that aspect of myself. when i get the time i try to maintain other interests and hobbies and make friends who help keep those parts of my life alive.
mushymushymushy i really care about OT in general and think it's odd how such a collection of good people found their way here and i'm glad i'm accepted and that wowswift didn't try to fight me or expose that i'm really a man. -
very well said hya
now you have to post noods to prove you are not a man -
Everyone in OT is an "online" friend, but it still doesn't compare to the bond I have with my real friends. There are like 60-70 people on here who I know for a fact would be a friend of mine in real life, but we all live too far away.
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Exactly. I think most of the people here are great, but only very few have really become "friends" that I'd include with my buddies I've known for years.
I have a great group of friends in real life with whom I've shared common experiences. For example, it would be very hard for anyone from P5s to ever become a better friend than my very best friends from West Point, or with my buddies with whom I served in Iraq. Both of those experiences were very difficult and trying, and it's through times like those that the strongest relationships are built.
But again, there are some people on here that I like very much and have become good friends. Of all the people I've met on here, Cougars4444 is the truest and best friend. We're about 6 years apart, but we have similar interests and hit it off very well in person. -
I agree but I would pee on everyone of my online friends if I met them in person. And that's saying a lot
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ess, do you have a thing for peeing on people?
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lol, I actually had an ex gf who wanted me to do it in the shower. I did and was soooo skeeved that I dumped her, and I am a freak
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I had a girl drink my pee back in october... strangely enough I was turned on... and no I didnt kiss her after...
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GTFO, that is the most vile thing I have ever read. I am now gonna go rub one out
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We need a picture of Cindy........obv
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we got back from this club, i was in the bathroom peeing, she walks in, promptly puts her face down and viola! Hope this helps...
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good thing you weren't taking a dump!
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Hey, I draw the line somewhere, thats just disgusting...
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lol @ tim
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my girl and I met online about 5 years ago playing games on yahoo, hooked up and she then moved here to colorado
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picture needed BTW i just got a straight flush
pokerstars Game #10356404772: Tournament #52474265, $55.00+$2.50 Hold'em No Limit - Match Round I, Level III (25/50) - 2007/06/09 - 20:46:24 (ET)
Table '52474265 1' 2-max Seat #2 is the button
Seat 1: MRayoun008 (800 in chips)
Seat 2: jalman69 (2200 in chips)
jalman69: posts small blind 25
MRayoun008: posts big blind 50
*** HOLE CARDS ***
Dealt to jalman69 [7s 9s]
jalman69: calls 25
MRayoun008: raises 150 to 200
jalman69: calls 150
*** FLOP *** [Ts 8s 9d]
MRayoun008: checks
jalman69: bets 600
MRayoun008: calls 600 and is all-in
*** TURN *** [Ts 8s 9d] [4s]
*** RIVER *** [Ts 8s 9d 4s] [6s]
*** SHOW DOWN ***
MRayoun008: shows [7h 7c] (a straight, Six to Ten)
jalman69: shows [7s 9s] (a straight flush, Six to Ten)
jalman69 collected 1600 from pot
*** SUMMARY ***
Total pot 1600 | Rake 0
Board [Ts 8s 9d 4s 6s]
Seat 1: MRayoun008 (big blind) showed [7h 7c] and lost with a straight, Six to Ten
Seat 2: jalman69 (button) (small blind) showed [7s 9s] and won (1600) with a straight flush, Six to Ten -
I have to agree with you slugger.
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I have alot of online friends, but i wouldnt consider them to be a good friend or a close friend unless ive hung out with them several times, with maybe one or two exceptions
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bgx I wasn't trying to say that our online friends were closer friends than people we had grown up with or went to school with necessarily. My point is I believe the people I consider my efriends are real friends as opposed to just someone I know from the internet. I talk to fitz and wretchy more frequently than people who l went to school with who live here in town.
Some of the folks I know from here are acquaintances and may never be more than that because of the time I get to talk to them or because our interests may not be that similar. Gank would be a good example for me. I like Gank and believe that he would recognize my name from here, but I dont believe our relationship would properly be considered friends right now. Using the original point from my op, I do consider Waco a friend, and Im not saying that he would say the same, because he was one of the first guys I talked to here a lot, mostly about baseball. I am kinda reluctant to use that example because I am sure there are several here who are much closer, but that was the original subject with Cindy. -
Someone can be an online friend, but you cannot be a real friend unless we've gotten shitfaced together.
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why piss on us ess?
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It's a sign of affection
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