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Its for the better. The raping all pays off in the end when you go to heaven.
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I'm not the one telling women that they shouldn't abort rape babies.
Do me a favor, then, and see if you can counsel a pregnant rape victim. Tell them exactly what you told us. "I would tell her that two wrongs don't make a right. I would ask her not to punish the innocent child for the sins of its father. I would ask her to see the baby as a victim as much as she is, since the baby had no say-so in the way it was conceived. I would tell her that something positive could come out of something horrible."Originally Posted by ECUgirl
No, I did not. But I know that if I had, I wouldn't have aborted the baby. It's not the baby's fault and the baby is not the enemy, nor should the baby have to forfeit its life because its father is an asshole. I just don't see why we make the baby out to be the problem in these situations. Again, imo, the baby is just as much a victim as the mother. The only guilty party is the rapist.
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I think I addressed this question above. I can't speak to what the guy meant by what he said. It comes across as very insensitive and is never a comment I think should be made to someone experiencing a traumatic event in their life. I don't think it's God's plan for anyone to get raped, or to get pregnant from a rape, but I do believe God can restore and redeem the awful events in our lives in a positive way. I know plenty of people, including myself, who have experienced that for themselves.
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First of all, I was responding to acp's question regarding my daughter, sister or mother. I was answering the question based on what I would tell someone who I have a close, intimate relationship with. I would counsel a friend the same way if she asked for my opinion.
Originally Posted by Magnet Steve
Do me a favor, then, and see if you can counsel a pregnant rape victim. Tell them exactly what you told us. "I would tell her that two wrongs don't make a right. I would ask her not to punish the innocent child for the sins of its father. I would ask her to see the baby as a victim as much as she is, since the baby had no say-so in the way it was conceived. I would tell her that something positive could come out of something horrible."
Again, though, no protective gear. That's cheating.
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No, you're just implying that someone else's view is less valid than yours because the rape she experienced didn't get her pregnant.
Originally Posted by Magnet Steve
I'm not the one telling women that they shouldn't abort rape babies.
Seems like you also somehow fail to understand that the opposing view on abortion isn't "oh you got raped? deal with it" It's "oh, your mom got raped? you still have a right to live." Jesus man. I'm not even picking sides in the argument, just your methods are dickish. That's all I'm trying to say. -
Suggesting to a rape victim that they should carry the fetus to term when safe and legal abortions exist is morally fucking repugnant. Sorry, it is. No tolerance for that stance here.
Originally Posted by wes_mc
No, you're just implying that someone else's view is less valid than yours because the rape she experienced didn't get her pregnant.
Seems like you also somehow fail to understand that the opposing view on abortion isn't "oh you got raped? deal with it" It's "oh, your mom got raped? you still have a right to live." Jesus man. I'm not even picking sides in the argument, just your methods are dickish. That's all I'm trying to say. -
I bet God despises religion. I'm sure he didn't intend to give people free will only to join these mind limiting organizations...
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Did anyone watch the video? I'm just curious what people's thoughts are after hearing from people who were actually conceived from rape. Would they be better off if they weren't ever born? Does anyone see that maybe something positive (their life) came out of something horrific? I think we should definitely take their voices into account when discussing this issue.
I also feel very sad that so many of you seem incredibly angry about God and see Him as some evil sky jerk that's out to get people (if you acknowledge His existence at all). I realize that many times the reason you have that impression is because of Christians, which breaks my heart :( I wish you could experience God as I do--as love, light, hope and grace. I've gotten a lot of heat for being vocal about my beliefs on here, but God has had nothing but a positive impact on my life and the lives of countless people I know. The Christians I know are loving, caring, kind and compassionate people. It's a shame that the ones who don't display those traits are the ones who get all the attention. -
I enjoy taking the unpopular side of these debates in OT. It bears no relationship to my own personal views so I guess "playing devil's advocate" might be a better description than "level."
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Originally Posted by Magnet Steve
Suggesting to a rape victim that they should carry the fetus to term when safe and legal abortions exist is morally fucking repugnant. Sorry, it is. No tolerance for that stance here.
Your inability to see that people who view life as sacred have those exact same convictions about the life of the baby and the morality of aborting it as you do about the repugnancy and morality of carrying a child of rape to term will prevent you from ever being able to argue objectively or effectively on this subject. Tolerance is a hallmark of an enlightened society. -
ECU, once you get tired of your shitty desert misogynist God, there are 1000's of others to choose from, some of them are even female themselves. Might I suggest a Goddess from the Greek or Roman pantheons? Diana don't take no mess.
Edited By: Magnet Steve Oct 24th, 2012 at 09:12 PM
I see it just fine, it's just an unsupportable claim. Thanks for your concern, though.Originally Posted by Dyzalot
Your inability to see that people who view life as sacred have those exact same convictions about the life of the baby and the morality of aborting it as you do about the repugnancy and morality of carrying a child of rape to term will prevent you from ever being able to argue objectively or effectively on this subject. Tolerance is a hallmark of an enlightened society.
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so aside from the whole abortion thing, i'd have to say that I'm not "angry" about God, but if the guy described in the bible is real (which I certainly don't think is the case), he's a bigger dick than Magnet Steve. and I don't mean his followers. I mean the actual God described in the bible, even the "nice" version of him.
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Originally Posted by ECUgirl
I also feel very sad that so many of you seem incredibly angry about God and see Him as some evil sky jerk that's out to get people (if you acknowledge His existence at all).
Any superior being who thinks he has the right to force me to bow and slave for him just because he says so and with threats of force if I don't is an evil jerk in my book. However, I will defend your right to practice your faith however you want as long as you don't infringe on me. But yeah, your "God" is an evil jerk. -
Don't watch Bill Maher anymore but certainly agree with him when he says "God is a prick"
Originally Posted by wes_mc
so aside from the whole abortion thing, i'd have to say that I'm not "angry" about God, but if the guy described in the bible is real (which I certainly don't think is the case), he's a bigger dick than Magnet Steve. and I don't mean his followers. I mean the actual God described in the bible, even the "nice" version of him.
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You're entitled to your opinion. I don't see Him forcing anyone, actually, and I'm not a slave. In fact, just the opposite :) I'm loved, forgiven, chosen and free.
Originally Posted by Dyzalot
Any superior being who thinks he has the right to force me to bow and slave for him just because he says so and with threats of force if I don't is an evil jerk in my book. However, I will defend your right to practice your faith however you want as long as you don't infringe on me. But yeah, your "God" is an evil jerk.
"But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light"--1 Peter 2:9.
"So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed"--John 8:36.
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So ecu, should all rape victims keep their babies?
"why should the baby be punished".
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By force I meant that if you don't obey you apparently are thrown into hell against your will. That is force. I mean worse yet you could be the nicest, most charitable person ever and apparently if you don't accept Jesus as your savior and confess your "sins" then you are doomed to eternal damnation. He seems to care about process over product. And the fact that we "belong" to God is another indication of "Him" treating us as if we are slaves. I mean what kind of being other than a slave master demands the kind of loyalty He demands whereby you are expected to sacrifice your child for Him? Yes, He is an evil jerk.
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Obviously this is the church to join.
Originally Posted by Lord Supremo
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I'm starting to think it might be time to rekindle my old faith in the Greek gods, seems like fun.
edit: Wicca seems fun too, but idk if they let men join, can any OT witches confirm?
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The path of Zoroaster is the true path.
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Church of the Fonzie ftw. Aaaayyyyymen.
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Edited By: jay_bear Oct 24th, 2012 at 10:35 PMOriginally Posted by ECUgirl
Did anyone watch the video? I'm just curious what people's thoughts are after hearing from people who were actually conceived from rape. Would they be better off if they weren't ever born? Does anyone see that maybe something positive (their life) came out of something horrific? I think we should definitely take their voices into account when discussing this issue.
I also feel very sad that so many of you seem incredibly angry about God and see Him as some evil sky jerk that's out to get people (if you acknowledge His existence at all). I realize that many times the reason you have that impression is because of Christians, which breaks my heart :( I wish you could experience God as I do--as love, light, hope and grace. I've gotten a lot of heat for being vocal about my beliefs on here, but God has had nothing but a positive impact on my life and the lives of countless people I know. The Christians I know are loving, caring, kind and compassionate people. It's a shame that the ones who don't display those traits are the ones who get all the attention.
I watched the video seems like an attempt at putting a guilt trip on victims of these crimes, who do not want to carry their rapist child. I believe those women made a choice to have the children in the video, but that was their choice, should we force that choice on women who don't want that child?
ECU do you believe that we tell a women who just had her choice taken away and her body horrifically violated. That now she has no choice on whether or not she now has to carry her rapist baby. I think that is a little to much for women in a country where one out of six women are raped.
The real problem is most of these pro-life people are really pro-birth. There job stops as soon as the child is born then after that it's the mothers problem. They are not taking into account if the victim has health insurance, flexibility in her job for doctor appointments and delivery of the child. They don't ask if she has the income to support a unwanted pregnancy or if they are in a relationship or married and if there significant other wants to take care of the child of the man who raped her. No there responsibility stops at child birth.
Mission accomplished Gods will is done, lets see who else life we can make miserable with our high moral standards.
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How miserable does one make the "life" of the aborted when applying your own "high moral standards"?
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Think of heaven as oneness with God and hell as eternal separation from God. Makes sense that one cannot get to heaven without acceptance.
Edited By: Mr Galt Oct 24th, 2012 at 10:54 PM
One does not "earn" their oneness with God thru good acts. It is a good by-product of the acceptance tho.













