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recomend any books where f*#cked up things happen to teenage girls?

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  1. buchiYAYO buchiYAYO is offline

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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 1:18am) in reply to Geoff Moore

     
    Originally Posted by Geoff Moore View Post

    you could ask her what she thinks is a fair punishment, that forces her to see it from your point of view.

    Thats what we did, I havent mentioned it yet but the book Idea was actually her Idea. Read 3 in 5 weeks. Thats why I started this thread, guess I should have put that in there somewhere.

    She also made a list that said what she thought she should get back after how many weeks of doing certain things like "Laundry everyotherday-2 weeks get facebook use back" "wash the trucks 1 month- friend stays the night on friday"

    We erased all the time constraints and wote in "at our discretion" this was before we found the wrapper in the BR this morning tho...

    Made her get her ass up at 6:30 as I headed to work to get to work on my laundry and house.
    Edited By: buchiYAYO Jun 17th, 2011 at 01:19 AM
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  2. waboose waboose is offline

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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 1:19am) in reply to buchiYAYO

    lol txgal thats what im gonna do, or send em to a nunnery or whatever its called,

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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 1:48am) in reply to waboose


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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 1:54am) in reply to ltquick

    wow @ the number of people that think buchi's original punishment is grossly excessive
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 2:20am) in reply to warden

     
    Originally Posted by warden View Post

    wow @ the number of people that think buchi's original punishment is grossly excessive

    Include me in that. Jesus dude.
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 2:25am) in reply to LeftyMark

    Living in LeftyMark's Basement : A True Firsthand Account
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 2:26am) in reply to warden

     
    Originally Posted by warden View Post

    wow @ the number of people that think buchi's original punishment is grossly excessive

    Well, maybe I shouldn't be shocked that you go by "Warden"?
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 2:38am) in reply to RUBINH

    an easy thing to do is to have family dinner at least 5 times a week. spend some time together and enjoy eachothers company, joke around dont have too many serius conversations that cause tension just have fun as much as possible. soon enough you build respect for eachother and she wont blatantly disrepect you and she will feel your place in the family. if you dont already do this then you could say that she has to eat dinner with you and your gf every night before she goes out (after initial punishment is over). its a good place to start.

    ALSO: dissapointed in the fact that i'm the first to request pics, wtf
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 2:58am) in reply to tb4rizzl

     
    Originally Posted by tb4rizzl View Post

    ALSO: dissapointed in the fact that i'm the first to request pics, wtf

    14 tho meh. post some pics of her mom!
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 3:00am) in reply to Cmoney3

     
    Originally Posted by Cmoney3 View Post

    14 tho meh. post some pics of her mom!

    The mom has already been posted and reached its lifetime allotment of faps.
    Edited By: Niceguy Jun 17th, 2011 at 03:00 AM
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 3:15am) in reply to Niceguy

    y'know, come to think of it, when i was 17, i spent a summer pounding the hell out of my 15, turned 16 in july gf. eff the haters, that summer was awesome.
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 5:14am) in reply to warden

     
    Originally Posted by warden View Post

    wow @ the number of people that think buchi's original punishment is grossly excessive


    Seriously?
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 5:35am) in reply to jonnyg123

    It's unbelievable what a complete and utter jackass you are for having one iota of involvement in that girl's punishment.
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 5:41am) in reply to TiltinShoes

     
    Originally Posted by TiltinShoes View Post

    Seriously?

    grounded for 5 weeks when she's 14 and snuck off in the middle of the night to hang out with her boyfriend? that's grossly excessive?

     
    Originally Posted by Lord Supremo View Post

    I'm utterly bewildered by this post. You spend like 300 words telling us about how having an ultra-strict parent made your life suck and demonstrate that you clearly still have resentment for your mom to this day because of it...and then you criticize everyone who's telling Buchi not to subject this girl to similarly draconian treatment. The consensus ITT isn't hating on Buchi or calling for him to "do nothing/not care" we're just saying that he shouldn't ground her for an entire summer over one infraction.

    really?

    her point is that his punishment isn't that strict/excessive at all. her whole point is that it ISN'T "similarly draconian." in fact, it's ridiculously unfair to buchi to even characterize it as such.

    i'm guessing that no one in this thread is asian/had many asian friends growing up, btw.
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 5:44am) in reply to warden

     
    Originally Posted by warden View Post

    rounded for 5 weeks

    [ ] "entire summer" is 5 weeks

     
    Originally Posted by warden View Post

    i'm guessing that no one in this thread is asian/had many asian friends growing up, btw.

    Can't say that I did. They were not allowed out of the house and allowed to have a childhood
    Edited By: zeppelinzoso16 Jun 17th, 2011 at 05:44 AM
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 5:45am) in reply to warden

    Let's be fair warden, most asian children know not to fuck up to this degree.
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 5:49am) in reply to warden

     
    Originally Posted by warden View Post


    i'm guessing that no one in this thread had any parental discipline as a kid, btw.

    fyp

    I see nothing wrong with what buchi's doing either. Lol if i ever though about doing something like this at 14 my Dad would have whooped my ass. Not a spanking, like literally kicked and knocked the shit out of me. Hell if i would ever sass my Mom he would put his foot in my ass if i turned my back.
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 5:49am) in reply to warden

    no one said 5 weeks was excessive. the reactions were to grounding her for the summer.
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 5:50am) in reply to zeppelinzoso16

     
    Originally Posted by zeppelinzoso16 View Post

    [ ] "entire summer" is 5 weeks

     
    Originally Posted by buchiYAYO View Post

    DOUBLE EDIT*See below for the explination of the long punishment, summer is 10 weeks, as it stands now she is grounded for 5 with good behavior.

    that basically means 5 unless you do other shit, which means it's 5 and you get punished for other shit if you break it
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 5:54am) in reply to warden

    I ran this by my parents just for shits sake, what they came up with was very interesting.

    They said to ground her for a week or so, but to sign her up for volunteer work to the tune of 40 hours or so a week. That way she's doing something that helps the community, you get your punishment in the grounding and it will help prevent action (working for free hungover is a BITCH). Also this will be something great to put on a job/college application.

    They hated the idea of grounding for 5-10 weeks. In their words 'why the hell does he want to punish himself?'
    Edited By: DaVols Jun 17th, 2011 at 06:02 AM
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 5:55am) in reply to DaVols

    Can we all just be honest and tell buchi that he should just stop trying? No matter what he does this lil piece of trash(with all due respect) isn't going to listen to him and will just resent him and her mother. He isn't her daddy and nothing will change that. Just buy her a box of condoms so she stops going through your shit and call it a day. It sucks and you're trying your best to keep her on the right path but it'll all be for naught. God I hope I never have a daughter.
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 5:56am) in reply to Niceguy

    That's a really good idea
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 6:18am) in reply to zeppelinzoso16

    i got grounded 2x in HS. my grandpa didnt want to spend all his time making sure i was being grounded.

    first time i came home piss drunk, got grounded until christmas, this was on like december 21st. had family shit to do all week anyways.

    got grounded in march(few months later) for getting picked up for curfew, no drugs, no alcohol on me but i got 2 weeks bc he had to come get me.i was super easy to raise
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 2:05pm) in reply to Niceguy

     
    Originally Posted by Niceguy View Post

    Can we all just be honest and tell buchi that he should just stop trying? No matter what he does this lil piece of trash(with all due respect) isn't going to listen to him and will just resent him and her mother. He isn't her daddy and nothing will change that. Just buy her a box of condoms so she stops going through your shit and call it a day. It sucks and you're trying your best to keep her on the right path but it'll all be for naught. God I hope I never have a daughter.

    Shhhhhh....the truth hurts.
     
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 2:11pm) in reply to Cmoney3

     
    Originally Posted by Cmoney3 View Post

    14 tho meh. post some pics of her mom!

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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 2:23pm) in reply to LeftyMark

    Congrats on being a parent of the neighborhood slut...

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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 3:42pm) in reply to SmokeyCasinos

    Lefty, can we at least get that in MSPaint form?
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 5:51pm) in reply to JayAces

    Romeo and Juliet................................
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    Jun 17th, 2011 (6/17/2011 6:04pm) in reply to LoveHatePoker

    look on the brightside, soon you'll be dating the hottest GILF in all of hampton
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