Ok so I met this girl out like 2 months ago. We talked for like 30 seconds at the most. We have some mutual friends so she wound up finding me on myspace. We have been chatting online for like 2 months now (yahoo msgr. and myspace)

We have been trying to hook up some night and go out for the past 2 or 3 weeks. She had a work fuction going on tonight that was going to be done around 9PM. We made plans to meet up around 9PM... kinda open ended plans nothing set or locked down to what we are going to do. We figured we would go get a drink or something.

She texts me around 5:30 asking if I would like to go see this one band play. I text her back and say sure whatever sounds like fun. She then texts me back saying ok cool a bunch of my friends and co workers are going up there so we can all hang out. "Is that ok" she texts.

I just feel kinda wronged that she changed plans 4 hours before we were suppose to go out. I do not mind going out with a bunch of people but I just feel like I will be the odd man out here.

Do you think I should cancel and tell her we can hang out some other time or just go and hang out with her and her group of friends/co workers.

Would any of you guys be a bit upset about this? Or am I over re acting? Is she maybe doing this because she does not feel comfortable because she really does not know me that well?

Thoughts?

iloveparis

if you have no social skills, dont go...if you do...be friendly, very nice...impress her friendsco workers by being nice...not the asshole...end of the night=well you know

shes probably just gaining her friends approval

Yeah I have no problem being around here friends....Social skills is not a problem.

I just kinda feel wronged the whole way it went down and feel like the date/night is starting off in a negative way.

maybe another night might work out better.

iloveparis

definitely go...

she's obv afraid of being date raped while being alone with you

id hit it

If the girl is cool just go, she may be playing it safe wanting to go out with other people too. If it sucks you can leave anytime and say you're tired. Or if she sucks and it's annoying just get druink and be a dick to everyone.

go! she probably felt like since your plans were "open-ended" this might be something to do. she'll probably feel much more comfortable hanging out the first time with some other people she knows around, and if she really likes you and things go well she will make sure to let you know and find a way to do something alone together, if not right after the concert then sometime soon. don't be too bothered, she probably just thought since your plans weren't set in stone this would be fine.

Go. And promise me that at the end of every sentence, you'll say "iloveparis."

You talked to her on myspace but have no pics, hummmmmmm.

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lol good point

Date sucked..... She was pretty hot. But real bad additude (bitchy, uptight, snobby)

I told her I gotta go after about 45 minutes.

Heres a few pics.





31 years old , great body, dressed nice, pretty,classy, tiny. But just a piss poor personality.

Oh well...

iloveparis

Where are her boobies?

I would get tired of putting a sig at the end of every post

beggars can't be choosers... and anyone who asks for advice in OT is obviously a beggar.