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ive been on a few dates with this girl...we are starting to get prety close...closer then i normally like to get...most of my "relationships" don't go much past the first night...anyway last night we were at this bar called the vault i was getting good and drunk(she was trying to stay sober to drive) and she asked me the question i always hate getting asked "so how many girls have you been with?" normally i change the subject or lie, but since i was drunk and feeling confessional i told her the truth(or as close to the truth as i know it to be) i told her something like "don't remember all of them, but it's probaly less then a hundred" for some reason she gets all mad and wont even talk to me...after a few unsuccesful shots at apologizing, I reach in my wallet and pull out a monopoly "get out of jail free" card(i knew it would come in handy some day for something) anyway she thought it was so funny that i thought to do that i was forgiven and essentially i got out of jail free
my question is, should I have lied? also in the future with other girls, should i lie?
also please don't troll my post talking junk...i dident post this to brag, and im not trying to prove anything to anyone...just asking a serious question -
I never lied about the multitudes of women I slept with, and it always served me well. (With the exception of Virgins, church girls/mormons, debutants, glee club members, or otherwise upstanding, respectable girls.)
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"don't remember all of them, but it's probaly less then a hundred"
Is not a good line to use when getting into a girls pants for the 1st time.
Yes, lie...and then tell her the truth later -
well heres the thing , if i know that this could get serious and have some what of a future with this chick telling the truth will get you further , as if u start 1 lie the lies will keep coming if she asks u questions like this which she obv will so she can get to you know more every girl does this. but if i know its not going anywhere and all i want to do it bang i def will lie bc if i do tell the truth and shes totally turned off by it than your fuked lol
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we'd have a better idea of what would be an appropriate response if we had some idea of what the girl you'd be lying to looked like, imo.
from the looks of your profile pic, you have a few things you should be lying about to girls. -
i see these threads all the time and laugh..but i used to think you all were joking.
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Answer to OP: In your case, probably unnecessary
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thats got to be the worst answer to that question i've ever heard
sick move with the get out of jail free card though. i might have to assimilate that shit lol -
Jesus. yes lie. You are a single male with a mandate of Manifest Destiny. you are not a man if oyu are not doing everything possible to get in her pants, if that is where you want to be. Manifest fucking Destiny. live by that for a few years. try it on. it fits well. if not, surrender your man card.
Now, i answered you because waco and reech also answered. but seriously, pics or GTFO. -
i find it hard to believe the number would be near 100 for someone who would say that to a girl...
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I was asked that question by a girl like 2 weeks ago.
I responded with something alone the lines of, "wtf? why would you even ask that? Im not fucking answering so you might just want to forget you even brought it up."
It worked. -
lol this
Originally Posted by jdsas
Jesus. yes lie. You are a single male with a mandate of Manifest Destiny. you are not a man if oyu are not doing everything possible to get in her pants, if that is where you want to be. Manifest fucking Destiny. live by that for a few years. try it on. it fits well. if not, surrender your man card.
Now, i answered you because waco and reech also answered. but seriously, pics or GTFO. -
Answer to OP question - give her a funny (not truthful) answer OR go with Jaybone's style "don't fucking ask me that, move on". Both are correct.
and LOL @ Schrazor. dude always comes thru. -
this is exactly what i said to my old lady when she asked me after about 3 months into the relationship and it been almost 5 years later and she still hasnt ask agian :)
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yeah it was a pretty stupid answer...i could have worded it much better...in my drunken state it seemed aight....and just fyi...i had already slept with her on second date so i wasen't worried about that, i was just trying to be truthful with her in case we end up having some type of future
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Many years ago I asked a man this question & received pretty much the same response Jaybone gave. Lesson learned. I've never asked ANYONE that question again (even my closest chick friends).
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ok, a woman. Now i need to ask you a question.
Originally Posted by TXGal141
Many years ago I asked a man this question & received pretty much the same response Jaybone gave. Lesson learned. I've never asked ANYONE that question again (even my closest chick friends).
What exactly is the answer you are looking for here? There is only a range of about a few numbers that I think would be acceptable. everything else would probably turn you off. Im baffled as to why women ask this in the first place. -
chicks are pretty nosey in general?
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I think I asked because I was a being an immature 19-year-old. Tbh, I can't even remember now what my purpose was in asking. Thinking back to how I was when I was 19... I probably asked in the hopes that he'd answer with "Zero. I've been waiting for YOU my whole life." Silly, I know.
Originally Posted by Jaybone2315
ok, a woman. Now i need to ask you a question.Originally Posted by TXGal141
Many years ago I asked a man this question & received pretty much the same response Jaybone gave. Lesson learned. I've never asked ANYONE that question again (even my closest chick friends).
What exactly is the answer you are looking for here? There is only a range of about a few numbers that I think would be acceptable. everything else would probably turn you off. Im baffled as to why women ask this in the first place. -
lie your ass off
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You gotta ask yourself, What have I got to gain by reveling the truth in a spot such as this? Once you have arrived at that point, answer accordingly. I find the # 3 to be most successful answer to this question if she really presses you for a #.
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edited...
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I agree. There is no place for a question like this in any social setting between two people of the opposite sex.
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In the 12 years I've known my hubby, I've never asked - no good can come of such a question - there are a several ways to avoid giving an answer here - you can start with "a gentleman never tells" then if pressed you can say "honestly, I don't know the EXACT # - I don't notch my bedpost" but that will obv mean your # is > 10 - you could also say "the number of girls I've slept with in the past is unimportant, what's important is the # going forward - I'm hoping it's 1" - or you could go with "I don't discuss my exes - they're in the past - let's leave them there" or something to that affect - don't lie, but don't tell her either if your # is high - she's likely asking because she wants to feel like she's not just another # - make her feel special/let her know that you're more interested in your future together than you are in rehashing your past
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