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  1. luckycharm luckycharm is offline

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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 10:42pm)

    as the perfect match, or soul mate?
  2. riverdrowns riverdrowns is offline

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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 10:43pm) in reply to luckycharm

    Alright you stoic little bastard. In the computer room, little second drawer where I keep my weed underneath the handgun, there’s a stack of porn that’ll put callouses on those little hands of yours
  3. luckycharm luckycharm is offline

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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 10:47pm) in reply to riverdrowns

    LOL, I'm a chick, I'll pass on your porn
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  4. timthegem timthegem is offline

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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 10:48pm) in reply to luckycharm

    You can't make such claims without proof.
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 10:52pm) in reply to luckycharm

    Nope, it's all random chance. But after a certain point with someone they become the only person in the world for you.
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 10:53pm) in reply to timthegem

    Sure there is...but science has proven the feeling wears off after 3 to 4 years then love becomes hate. By the way love and hate are very very similar in the brain.

    Oh and pics or gtfo!
  7. TXGal141 TXGal141 is offline

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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 10:54pm) in reply to luckycharm

    I believe in soul mates.
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 10:54pm) in reply to luckycharm

     
    Originally Posted by luckycharm View Post

    LOL, I'm a chick, I'll pass on your porn

    OMG Its a Female!!!!!!!!!!
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 10:55pm) in reply to luckycharm

     
    Originally Posted by luckycharm View Post

    as the perfect match, or soul mate?

    We cannot answer this question accurately until you show us your boobs
  10. luckycharm luckycharm is offline

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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 10:59pm) in reply to Mr323

     
    Originally Posted by Mr323 View Post

    Sure there is...but science has proven the feeling wears off after 3 to 4 years then love becomes hate. By the way love and hate are very very similar in the brain.

    Oh and pics or gtfo!

    Pics will come in the future, I'm 1 day into OT!

    PS Love and hate are wayyy to similar... it's scary
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:00pm) in reply to luckycharm

    Well I kind of hate you right now. Let's boof.
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:01pm) in reply to luckycharm

     
    Originally Posted by luckycharm View Post

     
    Originally Posted by Mr323 View Post

    Sure there is...but science has proven the feeling wears off after 3 to 4 years then love becomes hate. By the way love and hate are very very similar in the brain.

    Oh and pics or gtfo!

    Pics will come in the future, I'm 1 day into OT!

    PS Love and hate are wayyy to similar... it's scary

    Stop living in the past/future.

    Life is about the now.

    Let's live in the now.
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:02pm) in reply to luckycharm

    i've met my soul mate a few times ... my wife loves me anyways
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:03pm) in reply to luckycharm



    I'd hit it
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:04pm) in reply to TXGal141

    I call them cock "fits." It happens.
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:06pm) in reply to luckycharm

    No, there is no soulmate or perfect match. Just be happy if you can find someone who you can tolerate for many many years without trying to kill each other.
     
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:06pm) in reply to dams

    100% absolutely yes to the OP.
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:07pm) in reply to luckycharm

    hi, welcome
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:09pm) in reply to Lord Supremo

     
    Originally Posted by Lord Supremo View Post



    I'd hit it

    This made me chuckle.
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:10pm) in reply to wantagolf

     
    Originally Posted by wantagolf View Post


    No, there is no soulmate or perfect match. Just be happy if you can find someone who you can tolerate for many many years without trying to kill each other.

    LOL ain't that the truth
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:11pm) in reply to wantagolf

     
    Originally Posted by wantagolf View Post


    No, there is no soulmate or perfect match. Just be happy if you can find someone who you can tolerate for many many years without trying to kill each other.

    This is what I'm scared of... When do I consider myself "settling"? I look at many couples that end in divorce, hate each other, and/or live miserable lives... I expect mine to be perfect. (I know this is not possible--but I'd like to have something close to it!, and think I could get it) :P
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:12pm) in reply to luckycharm

    stop watching disney movies imo. theres no prince charming
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:13pm) in reply to SmokeyCasinos

     
    Originally Posted by SmokeyCasinos View Post

    hi, welcome

    awwwee... yuck!
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:16pm) in reply to Lord Supremo

     
    Originally Posted by Lord Supremo View Post



    I'd hit it

    definitely
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:23pm) in reply to luckycharm

     
    Originally Posted by luckycharm View Post

     
    Originally Posted by SmokeyCasinos View Post

    hi, welcome

    awwwee... yuck!

    I take it you've never seen Star Wars?
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:25pm) in reply to luckycharm

     
    Originally Posted by luckycharm View Post

     
    Originally Posted by wantagolf View Post


    No, there is no soulmate or perfect match. Just be happy if you can find someone who you can tolerate for many many years without trying to kill each other.

    This is what I'm scared of... When do I consider myself "settling"? I look at many couples that end in divorce, hate each other, and/or live miserable lives... I expect mine to be perfect. (I know this is not possible--but I'd like to have something close to it!, and think I could get it) :P

    The reason "soulmates" don't ACTUALLY exist, is twofold:

    1. Perfection does not exist. If you use an electron microscope, you will notice quite quickly that nobody on earth is even remotely close to perfect.

    2. Souls don't exist either.

    The good news, however, is that someone who is "perfect for you" (which doesn't actually exist) would only be 1% better than someone who is 99% perfect for you (which DOES exist). Which is good enough. That's not settling. 1% isn't even very noticeable.

    The bad news is, the percentage of closeness to perfection will decrease over time, because, according to psychology, the average sexual relationship only stays in its prime for around 2 to 4 years, and after that it typically declines. This is not always the case, but it almost always is.

    I think your best bet would be to go to Japan and have lesbian sex with Japanese women, personally. That would be pretty cool.
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:25pm) in reply to luckycharm

     
    Originally Posted by luckycharm View Post

     
    Originally Posted by wantagolf View Post


    No, there is no soulmate or perfect match. Just be happy if you can find someone who you can tolerate for many many years without trying to kill each other.

    This is what I'm scared of... When do I consider myself "settling"? I look at many couples that end in divorce, hate each other, and/or live miserable lives... I expect mine to be perfect. (I know this is not possible--but I'd like to have something close to it!, and think I could get it) :P

    I have been married for 11 years. My wife is awesome but not a soul mate, thats for sure. We dont have very much in common, since she is filipina and grew up in the philipines and all her friends are filipina. But to me that is what makes our relationship work. She does her stuff and i do my stuff which is good seeing how i leave her for 6 months out of every year.

    I see people at work that have a hard time leaving their spouse and get all depressed and shit which just makes them miserable when they are gone.
     
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:26pm) in reply to luckycharm

     
    Originally Posted by luckycharm View Post

    I'd like to have something close to it!, and think I could get it) :P

    If this is how you feel, then never settle.
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:28pm) in reply to luckycharm

    yes, and i met mine the other day and epic life failed. gg me.
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    Apr 26th, 2009 (4/26/2009 11:29pm) in reply to luckycharm

    nope, although that doesn't stop me from acting like an idiot sometimes and thinking that there might be
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