alcohol is social lube and lol @ the fuck bitches get money pic and DoubleS00ted

I def agree its gonna be an informal arranged quiet asian girl when you're 30 or as other posters get drunk (prob will only take 3-4 shots/beers) and have a crazy night, ending in you getting laid.

I guarantee one crazy party night would change your life and perspective forever.

I was just like you when I was 16 (no offence). My mind wrapped up tight, I overanalyzed everything, worried about small shit, eg. whether she left a smiley at the end of a convo. You just have to loosen up and let things happen. Once I started partying/blazing my absent social being burst on to the scene. There was def some negative shit that came with it, but at least I was enjoying life and in a bizarre way I kind of found myself.

Just chill out. The FML mentality is fail. Go out tonight thinking these bitches don't know what this uncaged beast is capable of. Let the big dog eat

 

Originally Posted by AUTigers99

LOL, I just read this to my girlfriend and the first word out of her mouth was *garglegargle phhhhh slurp qrrrrr*

FYP

 

Originally Posted by DoubleS00ted

Heres what you gotta do.. She is obviously super shy so if she isnt responding to your texts on POF send her multiple texts on her phone, POF, and email if oyu have it.. she'll be sure to check one of those.. tell her you really would like to see her and that you are coming over to get her out of her shell.. tell her it will be good for her... so just show up at her house unexpectedly.. Ring the doorbell a few times and if she doesn't answer then her doorbell is obviously broken...Go window to window and look in them/ knock on them.. If you go at night make sure you bring something to protect yourself ( knife, bat, rope, etc) Make sure you walk around her house with it in case anyone is thinking about jacking you in her neighborhood.. If she doesnt answer the door/window knocks then call her a few times.. if she doesnt answer right away keep calling, her ringer is probably on low.. If she doesnt answer her phone and she is obviously home... there may be something wrong.. Fell, bumped her head, had low blood sugar and fainted, could be anything.. Id try to gain entry and check to see if she is ok... I mean if somethign is wrong and you potentially save her life I doubt she'd move out of State.. GL man.. sometimes to get the one you love you need to do things that will for sure get her.

100% do this

Man you guys are funny. I was reading this at work and I was cracking up. Bonus points to the poster who told me basically go into her house and scare her, I almost blurted out laughing at work. I know a lot of you guys are making fun of me but it's all good. Anyways, I gotta face the music. A lot of you said I got too attached too quickly and obviously you guys are right. It's just the way I am. I had a gut feeling that she and I could go somewhere. I mean I thought I really knew the girl. This isn't the first time that someone I thought I really knew basically flat out lied to me and hurt me real bad. Like all of you guys said, all I can do is keep trying and hopefully I'll take one down. I'm really glad a lot of you are rooting for me, even though some of my posts aren't the most popular. I often wonder if I made the right choices in life, when I see undeserving people getting what they want and here I am working and trying my ass off just to get one little thing, it really demoralizes me. I guess I really shouldn't care but still I dunno, maybe I deserve nothing in life and gotta earn it all. Anyways thanks to all who read my post and contributed.

BTW I haven't asked her out this weekend and after reading this I probably won't but we'll see how I feel later on.

 

Originally Posted by jackaaron

It's okay to be all sensitive and nice once in a while. With that said, I'm most definitely not advocating acting like some type of boorish prick.

Don't you know, sensitive and emotional men is the new trend these days, or at least this is what I keep reading about. Gotta love societal trends.

Good luck, Def. If this one doesn't work out, there will be another asian hottie to follow.

 

Originally Posted by Seykota

Don't you know, sensitive and emotional men is the new trend these days, or at least this is what I keep reading about.

Good luck, Def. If this one doesn't work out, there will be another asian hottie to follow.

Too bad none of the girls I go for can't realize it :(.

Look she was trying to be nice with her blowing you off. You need to keep plugging away BUT not with her. Just keep hitting up some dates. Sooner or later you will find Mrs.Right... or at the very least Mrs.Rightnow. Just dont put so much pressure on yourself to find someone. It will happen.

 

Originally Posted by Defndrofangels

BTW i'm 24 now...I should start looking no?

Thats the thing. DONT GO LOOKING. Just let it happen man. Don't try to put pressure on yourself. When it happens it happens man.

Have you ever sat down and written out what you want or are looking for? That usually helps make the dating process easier. There's nothing wrong with wanting some company, but it probably wouldn't hurt if you established some goals and criteria for your search. This way you're not just aimlessly wandering down any path.

I think all he's looking for is someone who isnt a pig faced cow and will go down on him? And if that isnt, he should atleast settle for that until he builds his self cofidence up?

 

Originally Posted by Ozzie

i still dont think youre getting this... for fucks sake youve only met the girl one time.

I'm talking about different girls ffs.

no, you said this isnt the first time... which while it implies there were other girls, also says this girl is among those who lied and really hurt you.

i dont really know you, but i dunno dude, i dont even think alcohol is a good idea for you... i can just picture you telling a girl you just met you love her after a few appletinis.

 

Originally Posted by wantagolf

I think all he's looking for is someone who isnt a pig faced cow and will go down on him? And if that isnt, he should atleast settle for that until he builds his self cofidence up?

I tend to agree, but don't know if Def will agree. Not sure about the settling part, but just dating.

 

Originally Posted by Seykota

I tend to agree, but don't know if Def will agree. Not sure about the settling part, but just dating.

I wouldn't mind dating someone if I feel that we can a strong relationship in the future, but I'm not gonna date someone for the sake of dating.