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  1. Defndrofangels Defndrofangels is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:36pm)

    I've been talking to a few girls online lately on AIM. Not really sure if there's anything but the girls seem to enjoy conversing with me. Anyways, it seems like I always have to IM them. They rarely IM me, like I'm already online playing pokerz or a game online, and I see them sign on, they don't IM me. Like maybe once or twice they IMed me when I'm already on. I shouldn't probably care but, usually when a girl is interested in you they'd IM you first right? It was like that with the other girl 2 months ago. Anyways my solution is to not give a damn and just continue life and if they IM me they'll IM me. Agrii??

    EDIT: I'm also posting from work so no NSFW posts please k?
  2. owl52 owl52 is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:37pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    my try talking to them in real life
  3. jlourenc jlourenc is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:38pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    grow some balls and ask them out
  4. FenwayKing FenwayKing is offline The Well: FenwayKing

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:38pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    go out and meet girls in real life
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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:38pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    I want to say some sort of smart ass comment, but...sighhhhhh
  6. elusively elusively is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:39pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    from my experience, you need to be closing from AIM ---> phone ---> real life ASAP
  7. Seykota Seykota is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:39pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    If you like one of them, why don't you just ask them out for dinner or coffee (I know, I know prolly bottled water for you because you don't drink coffee) or something? They could be IMing other people or logged in and doing other things.
  8. car_t_a car_t_a is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:39pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    Sounds like you're forgetting that you're not in 7th grade anymore
  9. XquiziVex XquiziVex is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:39pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    Let someone who has game ghost your PM sessions with these broads.

    They can set it up.....hopefully you can knock the bottom out of it.
  10. Donkey Kong Donkey Kong is offline it's on like me

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:40pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    just say, hey i think we would enjoy fucking eachother hit me up if you wanna chill
  11. xxACES UPxx xxACES UPxx is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:40pm) in reply to owl52

    Dont IM them every time they come on. Just play it cool. Youre not going to nail them anyways so you really have nothing to lose
  12. shanetrain22 shanetrain22 is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:40pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    You're the most hopeless slug on the face of the earth.
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  13. FenwayKing FenwayKing is offline The Well: FenwayKing

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:41pm) in reply to XquiziVex

     
    Originally Posted by XquiziVex View Post

    Let someone who has game ghost your PM sessions with these broads.

    They can set it up.....hopefully you can knock the bottom out of it.

    lollll I love this advice
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  14. yardsalecustomr yardsalecustomr is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:42pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    Meeting girls online really isn't that bad as long as your end goal is to meet them in person. In your case, I don't think you're giving them any reason to IM you first. You tilt me, man. You're like a chick; get some balls.
  15. jcpeace jcpeace is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:42pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    This is so not a bfactor thread :/
  16. SILKY JOHNSON SILKY JOHNSON is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:43pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    D, we seriously need to get you some trim. Set the bar low and work up after some success. Start hitting on the biggest girls you can find on there. Nothing under 200 lb. Gonna take some hard work and def some sacrafice on your end but you can only beat off so many diff ways..
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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:43pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    With your busy work/IMing/POF life how in the world do you have time to defend angels these days?
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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:44pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    Check this Asian dude's game out, Def:

    http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/54...53/index1.html

    I found that thread interesting. He used some NLP techniques combined with PUA to improve his dating life. You're gonna have to make some effort though. Stuff isn't just gonna happen.
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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:46pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    i want to comment but....its just getting sad really.
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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:49pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    Yes you are correct, if a girl is interested in you she would IM you right away. She would also prob get mad/ jealous if you didnt reply right away.

    If they dont IM you right away when they log on it means that talking to you isnt the reason they came online. Basically, they dont care about talking to you enough to type a message to you to start a conversation. I mean they obviously see you are on their list and available to chat so they would definitly message you if they were really interested in chatting.

    What is this talking to girls on AIM/Iming BS anyways? As said, go meet girls in real life. Theres this drink called alcohol which makes woman loose and this place called a club where they go to find guys to sleep with. Theres your answer.
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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:50pm) in reply to Lameass_

    if this girl IMed you, what would you do



    would she meet your standards. how about this one?

  22. goofy2485 goofy2485 is offline This thread sucks.

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 12:56pm) in reply to dolphin13



    Bfactor just came at the thought of her giving a BJ with a condom on.
  23. Defndrofangels Defndrofangels is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 1:12pm) in reply to joeschmo

     
    Originally Posted by joeschmo View Post

    Yes you are correct, if a girl is interested in you she would IM you right away. She would also prob get mad/ jealous if you didnt reply right away.

    If they dont IM you right away when they log on it means that talking to you isnt the reason they came online. Basically, they dont care about talking to you enough to type a message to you to start a conversation. I mean they obviously see you are on their list and available to chat so they would definitly message you if they were really interested in chatting.

    What is this talking to girls on AIM/Iming BS anyways? As said, go meet girls in real life. Theres this drink called alcohol which makes woman loose and this place called a club where they go to find guys to sleep with. Theres your answer.

    Well yea obv I'm talking to them with the intent of trying to make something happen. Yes I know there's places called clubs and a substance called alcohol, but I'm not looking for one night stands. Girls who frequent those clubs aren't my type.
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  24. ECUgirl ECUgirl is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 1:13pm) in reply to joeschmo

    I disagree that a woman would always IM you right away if she's interested. A lot of women like for the man to be the aggressor and take the lead. She may be sitting over there thinking "why isn't he sending me a message?" She might not be thinking that, but I wouldn't rule it out as a possibility :) Just send a message, what's it gonna hurt?
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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 1:14pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

     
    Originally Posted by Defndrofangels View Post

    Well yea obv I'm talking to them with the intent of trying to make something happen. Yes I know there's places called clubs and a substance called alcohol, but I'm not looking for one night stands. Girls who frequent those clubs aren't my type.

    aka i have no shot w a real life girl

    get some balls, get some self confidence and get some pussy dude
  26. dolphin13 dolphin13 is offline OT Vice MVP

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 1:16pm) in reply to ECUgirl

    see ecu, here's the thing you have to realize. this is defendr we're talking about here. He has NO RADAR. Obv its okay to message a girl first and see whats up.

    and very quickly most normal people would be able to tell if the girl has any interest. its all in here responses. but asking defendr to read that is like asking Jamaruc Russell to read a defense. just aint gonna happen.

    I wouldn't be the least surprised if defendr went on a date with a chick and at the end of the night she asked him in for coffee and he pulled a costanza and said "I can't drink coffee at night. It keeps me up"
  27. joeschmo joeschmo is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 1:18pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

     
    Originally Posted by Defndrofangels View Post

    Well yea obv I'm talking to them with the intent of trying to make something happen. Yes I know there's places called clubs and a substance called alcohol, but I'm not looking for one night stands. Girls who frequent those clubs aren't my type.

    What kinda chick are you looking for? FTR, a lot of people who end up married/ long relationships meet in bars. Not just all skanks there, lots of good girls just going out with friends go to clubs too.

    How can you not find the type of girl with all the dating sites out there? Dont the paid memberships at eharmony etc guarantee you will meet someone. Maybe time to pick up on one of those and give up on POF.
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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 1:19pm) in reply to Defndrofangels

    I'm just amazed that someone can be this socially inept...

    You went and hung out with some OT dudes at the Dodger game, right?? You can't be this socially worthless.
  29. ECUgirl ECUgirl is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 1:19pm) in reply to dolphin13

    Yeah, I know, some men are challenged in that way!
  30. Defndrofangels Defndrofangels is offline

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    Oct 30th, 2009 (10/30/2009 1:21pm) in reply to dolphin13

    Yes, dolphin, my girl reading skills aren't very good due to lack of experience. Why do you think I make threads like this? I mean it's obv I don't have the game to pull a wife online like you did, that's why I ask for advice.
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