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  1. In my opinion, most players who play poker online are really hurting themselves or potentially not doing as well as they could be. First off, most players lose money. The statistic is debated but about 90 percent of players actually lose money. A great deal of them lose money they can not afford to lose but due to addiction or the belief that they can make it big , they continue to play, which can have very large negative consquences. Some players do make money, but almost every single one overestimates how much they can make. This leads to some stupid decisions such as quitting their job and even worse, not going to college. Alot of these young guns are skipping college, going down the poker road. First off, your love for the game can dwindle. Second off, you are without a back up plan. Thirdly, you are ruining a great chance to grow as a person. Even the good players also go through addiction, and poker can sometimes consume their lives. One of the worst things with online poker is the time that you lose or the decease in other more important things. The time you spend playing poker could be used to go out, meet a friend, perhaps a girlfriend. It could be spent exercising and working on ones health. It could also be spent doing things like schoolwork, reading, etc. Poker is a great game. Online poker though is something though which i believe is not a positive influence for most people who play it. Im not saying it should be banned, as one should have the right to do what they want with their money. But i believe most people who play this game should take a seriously look at this game and the things they may be missing out on and decide if its worth it. Im not saying this is the case for everybody. Online Poker can be very beneficial for people, especially the older one is. However from personal experience, and posts on this forum, it really seems to me that alot of the online poker world, which most of them are under the age of 30, are missing out on alot of things. This age is supposed to be the prime of ones life and people are wasting it in an attempt to make a quick buck. This is not intended to be an assualt on anyone. I just hope that players will really look at online poker and what it does to their lives and see if its really worth it.
  2. How much?
  3. don't give up bud
  4. yea there's always another shot. just redeposit and move up stakes.
  5. I agree with you hodge, good post.
  6. So everyone should be bringing something to society? What's wrong with me going and buying goods and services with the money I make playing poker?

    And live poker is ok? Just online poker is the devil?
  7. TRUST me on this saying

    College ISNT for everybody.

    i totally agree with the post above.

    whats with the society thing?? and whats that something??

    maybe for a lot of people online poker is their something to society no matter how significant or insignifcant thier online accomplishments may be.
  8. Yo Hodge05: Your profile says you are 19 years old and you have EIGHT poker accounts at various poker sites......I am gueesing you have been playing online poker for years and you play many hours per week... Your entire post is really just aimed at yourself...........

    Take your OWN advice and quit playing poker and go on a date with a real girl !!!
  9. "you are ruining a great chance to grow as a person"

    I think anything you have a passion for can help you grow as a person.
  10. I think you raise some serious points and some people that probably read this thread will not have REALLY asked themselves some of the questions.

    any hobby, for it to be a healthy one (physicaly, psychologically), needs to have some balance to it. the same (basically) applies for many jobs.

    Mind you, the questions you raise above could be asked of someone who is a e.g. corporate lawyer, I think, too (long hours, little social life due to 80+ hr weeks, no 'clear tangible benefit to society' (eh hem...), may be bad for mental health, etc).

    You raise good questions and the answers are not easy! "What is the good life?" is a question that has been asked for 2,500 years+ MANY people fail to ask this question of themselves and of the few who do ask this question... fail to come up with a good answer (I fall into this category to some extent... it's a hard question... give me 20 years and then maybe I'll be wise enough).

    --tc
  11. from the sounds of things playing poker online has cost you alot of time and money that you couldnt/can't afford to lose. Sure there are alot of people in the same boat as you but look at a site like stars that has anywhere from fifty to a hundred thousand players on during peak hours, do you really think the majority of these people are degenerates that have lost everything because of online poker?

    Bottom line is youre a 19 year old kid that plays too much poker, if its making your life suck dont play anymore. If you think youre addicted get help.
     
  12. LOL Hodge is like 90, he's just trying to protect the rest of you youngens...and he has a point! No offense, but IMO, if you get the opportunity to go to college and choose not to in order to play poker, thats just plain stupid. College is 30% about the degree you get and 70% about the experiences you have while there that help you become a better person.

    That being said Hodge, not all people are wrong for online poker. If you have made enough playing poker to pay for your tuition while attending college, then trying it out for a year or two after graduation isnt such a bad thing. I have a friend that works a "normal" job for 20-25 hrs a week at a very respected investment firm and then plays poker for another 25-30 hours. He does very well at both places.

    For those who are already playing poker...you should know that bankroll management skills are VERY important. You MUST play within your bankroll or one winning year can quickly change to 2 or 3 losing years. No matter how much money you made, you WILL have a down year, its just a fact, so make sure that when you are up, youre making appropriate choices to get you through that down year.

    Thats it!
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  13. good post
  14. most well disguised brag post ever

    so obv that Hodge got laid last night
  15. You have a point in that poker is a good hobby for most, and career for just a few.

    You sound depressed tho, which is a epidemic over the christmas season, so try to focus on the heart.

    gl,
    steve
  16. Let’s see, some of the things that poker has improved in my life:

    Preparing for new situations.<SPAN> </SPAN>

    Whenever I play a new live (or online) tournament, I prepare. <SPAN> </SPAN>I develop a game plan.<SPAN> </SPAN>I might suck, but I’m prepared coming in.<SPAN> </SPAN>I know the structure, and I know what I want to accomplish at each stage of the tournament. <SPAN> </SPAN>I know how I want to play against each different type of player than I think I’ll encounter. <SPAN> </SPAN>This has caused me to do this more often in real life. <SPAN> </SPAN>To the tune of getting a few jobs that maybe I wouldn’t have gotten had I not prepared so thoroughly before hand. <SPAN> </SPAN>

    Playing within means. Bankroll management.

    In other words, not spending money where I should not. <SPAN> </SPAN>Making sure that my roll is properly allocated, and that I don’t blow it. <SPAN> </SPAN>This has caused me to manage my money outside of poker better as well. <SPAN> </SPAN>I realize how much more each dollar I spend on ridiculous crap means. <SPAN> </SPAN>I don’t overspend as much as I once did, and I budget a lot more. <SPAN> </SPAN>In fact, it got me to start cooking at home, saving more money, and eating healthier. <SPAN> </SPAN>I don’t waste electric.<SPAN> </SPAN>I don’t run the water bill up as much. <SPAN> </SPAN>On and on. <SPAN> </SPAN>

    Understanding that I don’t play well when I’m tired.<SPAN> </SPAN>

    This has caused me to start getting a lot more cardio, and some weightlifting.<SPAN> </SPAN>I didn’t really get overweight, but I was starting to get a little flabby (doughy might be a better word).<SPAN> </SPAN>I was getting tired quicker at night when I played, or went out, or just sat around.<SPAN> </SPAN>I realized when I felt like crap I played poorly, so I figured it had to translate into other things too.<SPAN> </SPAN>I got back into cardio, and some weightlifting, and noticed a very positive result (coupled with eating better because I started cooking at home).<SPAN> </SPAN>

    Identifying mistakes, and actively pursuing ways to prevent them.<SPAN> </SPAN>

    This is huge.<SPAN> </SPAN>I think it’s obvious how this translates into your real life.<SPAN> </SPAN>Yet, so many people that I know don’t look for the “leaks” in their life.<SPAN> </SPAN>I didn’t just do it in my game (which still needs a sick amount of improvement) but how I run myself.<SPAN> </SPAN>I developed a spreadsheet on all the pressing issues I have going on (it could be anything from a debt to something medical to a relationship, doesn’t matter), and kept tab of the progress of all of those issues.<SPAN> </SPAN>This actually took a crap load of worry off my mind.<SPAN> </SPAN>Mostly because it was down on “paper” (actually on Excel) and I no longer had to think (as much) about it because I knew I would visit those issues, and update their progress on a nearly daily basis.<SPAN> </SPAN>

    I started finding that I was getting a LOT more things accomplished.<SPAN> </SPAN>I increased my education for my resume, I paid off a lot of small debts to concentrate on bigger ones, yet increase my credit score, I made decisions about relationships that I either wanted to have, or no longer have quicker, and easier.<SPAN> </SPAN>I decided on things I wanted to buy quicker rather than wondering if there was something better for a long time, and not buying anything at all.<SPAN> </SPAN><SPAN> </SPAN><SPAN> </SPAN>

    Lastly, I could list a few more, but I think the picture is clear. <SPAN> </SPAN>Playing poker has benefited my life in good ways.<SPAN> </SPAN>It has caused me to look at things in a perspective I did not have before I started playing. <SPAN> </SPAN>
  17. Wow, thanks for this deeply meaningful advice Hodge....i am sure it has come from many years experience in poker and life itself!!!
    Oh.....you are a whole 19 years of age!
    Go and do your school work instead of telling grown adults what to do.
  18. This is an excellent post,

    Poker players contribute absolutely nothing to society, and all professional poker players, even the great doyle brunson are gambling addicts. If greg raymer or doyle bruson or phil ivey werent addicted to gambling(in this case poker is the form of gambling), they would have stopped playing a long time ago....and dont give me the its for the competition and the love of the game....bs, they play for money...I personally have no problem with it but I agree with a lot of what was said.

    After finding online poker, I found myself fatter, lazier and my variety of activities(music, reading, working out, going out looking for ladies) decreased quite a bit till i decided to play only once aweek online....it is a very dangerous thing because it is always there...we all know this...

    Hodge isnt telling you to do anything, he is just stating some very good points about online poker in general, it's okay to like something and admit that it has negative and harmful effects, if you cant do it and be comfortable you are obviously very insecure.

    GP
  19. why does everything we do have to contribute to society?
  20. lol, well spotted
  21. this is a good post but it doesn't matter because the people involved are delusional. You guys focus on the few good things online poker does for you. Life is not online poker, it online appears that way when you are 20 sleeping on mom and dads couch. Go to college, play poker on the side and give yourself options. I know, I am crazy for saying this, so blast me again.

    Rarely is the easiest option the best-Beanie
  22. "The time you spend playing poker could be used to go out, meet a friend, perhaps a girlfriend. It could be spent exercising and working on ones health."

    I could say the same about YOUR regular job as well. Maybe if we all quit our jobs and poker, we could go out and drink and have orgies all day long... Oh wait... Bills! Shit... forgot about those...

    I don't do this for a living... I have a regular job and I attend college full time, but I make a substantial part of my income from poker right now, and I enjoy playing. I eat well, exercise regularly, and I'm a very healthy person. How exactly does playing online poker hurt me? I think going to a shady, underground poker room would be far more hazardous to my health than playing online.

    Sounds to me like you've lost one too many buy-ins, sir. Maybe before you write an asinine thread like this again, you should re-examine your own life... instead of trying to scare all the fish away from my pond...
  23. its funny that you guys take this as a personal attack, points to immaturity IMO.
  24. It is.... he is attempting to scare off would-be online poker players... How is this not a personal attack? I think this guy just lost a lot of money online and is trying to make himself feel better. Sure it probably won't have a huge impact on me personally, but it annoys me when I see several people posting threads like this. I know that for every thread like this there's maybe a handful of players who decide to go get an Xbox instead of blow their money online because of it.
  25. I think you pretty much just made my point for me.

    edit: your logic makes no sense, I was saying pretty much the same thing yesterday and I am up huge on the year.
  26. "this is a good post but it doesn't matter because the people involved are delusional"

    This might be the best post in this thread..some of you guys are increadible....even if you think (mistakenly) that playing poker instead of college is a good idea, with ANY level of maturity, you should be able to recognise that the original post is ONLY trying to be helpful and is correct for a LOT of people...
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  27. great post hodge. i don't agree with everything you said, but i agree with most of it. and i'm not sure why people get so defensive when someone is just voicing their opinion.

    i guess when you're passionate about something you have to make sacrifices. for me, those sacrifices have been in my academics and social life. i've gotten a lot better at this silly game and made some money, but i've lost touch with a lot of people because i'll neeeeed to play the 9pm tourneys. i skip a lot of classes and my grades have started to suck. but i'm making good money and shouldn't have to work as hard later in life if i play my cards right.

    i'm definitely thankful for online poker and the ability to make a living from my apartment with no schedule, no boss etc etc. but i'm not naive... when you get committed to the game and start to do this full time it absolutely fucks with your outside life.

    edit: wasn't trying to rip on online poker or bitch or anything. just pointing out that there are downsides to playing the game seriously too. i think that the advantages that come out of the game (money, independence, trips etc) greatly outweigh the shitty parts and thats why i play.
  28. ^^^^^post of the year
  29. seconded.
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  30. I like this post a lot mhodge and figured it would get flamed. What gboro said happens to 99% of successful players and 100% at one point or another. For every choice one makes there's a sacrifice of taking that path. Playing online poker is certainly a sacrifice in other parts of a person's life. I've re-evaluated my life with and without online poker many times to make sure that the time I spend playing poker isn't time that I'm going to regret spending, especially when I look back 10 years down the road. At this stage in my life, playing poker 20 hours a week as a 'side job' during school is worth it to me. Sure I've probably sacrificed a little bit in the academic department, maybe a bit socially (anyone with a 20hour/week job would), but on the other hand I've been able to pay for my college tuition and have opportunities such as studying abroad in Oxford, living in Vegas for a summer, and networking with some of the greatest people and minds a person could ever imagine meeting. These opportunities wouldn't have been available to me otherwise.

    However, the game is very addictive, especially for successful players; and I never want to make poker my life where I dream about poker, talk about poker 24/7, and sacrifice future goals because of online poker. For the reader, I hope you don't either. If you have, I hope you re-evaluate what's truly important to you in your life and what you're going to appreciate about your life 10,20,50 years down the road.