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Yea so im officially forced to quit poker. No money. No Skill. No nothing. I cannot beat the game, I cannot win. I've gone bust for the last time and I say farewell. Time to find a new hobby. I really appreciate this community though. It has been fun.
btw FUCK 1 OUTER pokerstars. WHEN 1 OUTERS HIT MORE THAN 50% OF THE TIME OVER MY 6 MONTH CAREER, AND 20+ OUTERS NEVER HIT WHEN I HAVE THEM,IT REALLY SUCKS.(last rant) -
Dude, I read your posts all the time in hand advice, etc. You're a serious student of the game, and so many people go broke before they, well, don't go broke. I went dead broke twice before I was finally able to scratch up a respectable bankroll, and now I don't think it's possible for me to lose everything unless I get drunk and play above my limits.
Just take a bit of time off and start again, I have faith that you'll be back up again. -
Sorry, I used to have the same attitude, i kept trying and trying again. Then I went bust, and tried some more. Simply, it has happened too much and I finally realized I just don't have what it takes to win in the long run. So, thanks for the encouragement, but I really do need to try as hard as possible to stay away.
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NO come back I need a running mate in the micro donk tourneys.....
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Sorry to hear that. I appreciate all the input you've had at this site! Anyway good luck and maybe see you after a break.
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dude just join pokerxfactor or a similar poker school. you've come this far don't give up now. sounds like you just need a break.
and p.s. don't even try and quit because you know that poker has already sunk her evil hooks into you for life. There is no 'quit' in a poker players vocabulary
now suck it up and quit feeling sorry for yourself. bad beats happen to the best of us...part of being a successful player is how you let them affect your mindset...so get tough.
go take a walk somewhere and quit staring at the computer screen...go get some fresh air and re group and then get your ass back on the horse beeeeyoooootch
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You'll be back as soon as you get your next paycheck...
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What's wrong with getting drunk and playing above your limits anyway?
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SNG ACE,
I'd be willing to front you some money if you are serious about learning.
We can work out something, I'm sure.
Oh, as long as you don't ever, ever, ever complain about bad beats to me :)
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Ace,
I have degree in psychology and have read many, many books on the psychology of gaming profitably. IMHO I think a couple of things would be helpful for you, as they have proven to help be be a long-term winning player both live and online.
1. switch sites- your subconcious mind doesn't know the difference between what you believe to be true and what is true. If you have a preconceived notion that you will lose on the river or are not going to win no matter what you do....your play will be affected.
2. Take a break- give yourself some time to clear your thoughts. I think the biggest edge I have over my opponents is my ability to focus. If you are thinking about how bad it's gonna suck to get one outed on the river then you won't be focused enough to be accumulating chips so the one outer isn't going to put you out.
3. Play at a level which allows you to "play"- BIGGEST MISTAKE I SEE. People deposit $100 and they are playing at $25 NLHE room...or $10 SNG's. Play at a level where it is fun to play and you will gain insight and focus that you never knew you had. Barry Greenstein calls this extrinsic factors....it's having some other reason besides the money to win..very important and a major driving factor for 99.9% of winning players and successful people (even if they don't know it)
Let me reinterate on #3--this is not about bankroll management. I am not an expert on that and don't want to give anybody advice on it. This is about playing at a level where playing is fun or your are able to focus outside the monetary benefits of play.
Let me also say that there is nothing to be ashamed of for playing in a $5 room...funny as this may sound I play in $2 rooms all the time on dise when I'm just trying to relax. My BB/100 is something like 250 and it's a blast. Sometimes I'll play a $.50 SNG. When i go to the casinos to play 20/40 and 40/80 and 5/10NL I almost always end up playing the penny poker online to try and unwind after grinding for twenty hours.
4. Keep very intricate and accurate records- they don't lie and they open up areas that need improrvement. I have never seen a jump in the quality of my cash game play as when I got pokertracker. I still have never looked up an opponent, I just watch my own stats.
5. Still get another hobby- I talk to people all the time who are just obsessed. Be honest with yourself and figure out how many hours a day or week you can emotionally comfortably play and stick to it.
GL to you and everyone else reading. I hope something in here will help someone enjoy the game more and become more profitable.
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lol @ never complaining about bad beats. I believe he had over half the bad beats on the first page a few weeks ago :)
In all seriousness SNG, i'm sure Gidders can help you're sng game out a ton. Talking with other players who are serious about the game help tremendously -
PS. I spell and use grammar like a 2nd grader.
PS2. Always watch out for my wife at the tables...she plays under the same name and is much better than me!!!!...lol -
...best post I've seen in a while...any chance you could post some ISBN numbers or links to those resources? ...big reader here...
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I see Im not the only one thats on a bad streak, pokerprochecy had me at 42% cash rate for my $10 sngs, but then I had to cash out some $$ then started all over at $5 sngs and I've just been getting rapped by the 10 4 6 flops when i have AA against 10 4. Not sure what stakes you play but I wouldn't give up, Im down to my last $24, I'll probably do 4 $6 sngs, if I dont win, then I'll just wait till I get a summer job and put some $$ back in, probably a bad idea, but I like the advice of not giving up, theres just too much money to be won in online poker, there are always freerolls to build it back up too.
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See you in 2 days
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I sometimes think that the Big Guy upstairs doesn't want me to play poker,because of some of the beats I've taken.Just this morning at work(I just worked all night BTW)a guy we call call "card lotto" called my pre-flop raise with 73os,I held Ad Jd.The flop came down A 9 2 rainbow,he checked and I put him all in.He called and the hands were turned over and we all laughed.Then I said watch it come 7-7,and it f'ing did(grrr).
Just slow down on your playing,and like some others have said join PXfactor & RPT,then just play them SNG's like they were for a WPT championship.Things will turn around!!!
when I got home from work this morning I played a $10 SNG on AP.I was soooo card dead,after 40 hands I was down to $325.I battled and battled and ended up taking 1st place.
I guess all you can do in poker,is your job(getting your chips in with the best of it)
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I just wanted to say for the first 6 months I played I lost money...around 2500 at 50- 100 bucks a deposit and I was feeling exactly like you. But dont think of it in just money lost think of it as experience purchased. The things that turned around my game at that time was following strict bankroll guidlines and joining a training site (RPT). It was only for a month but it gave me some insight into what I was missing. Plus I set a short term goal of grinding 100-1000 which I met in 6 weeks. Now 8 months later Im recouped my losses plus another 8k, So if can do it trust me anyone can. Plus I was a member of PPS and currently a member of Poxer Fox. So heres what you should focus on to turn it around...strict bankroll management....gaining knowlege through an online school..Fox's is the best value and good place to start with a small bankroll but I would plan on trying other sites...get poker tracker to help evaluate your game...focus on bonus whoring and rakeback to build your roll...grinding out low limits..with 100 bucks this means 1-3 dollar sitngos....10-20 cent limit tables...1-2 cent NL... and 1 dollar MTT. This will be pretty safe to start and dont move up till you know you are destroying these limits..which it all it takes is solid ABC poker. Good Luck
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Try working on other forms of poker and take a break from hold em. Seriously though there is a lot less variance in a game like stud. Just think about it.
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Keep playing man, I want your money!
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Is that all I need to do is say im going to quit? Id love to but that would be a lie. Seriously gidders if you are going to do this type of thing you ought to have an essay contest or something. I am like the ultimate student, I follow all the top players and watch as much as I can. I will bring you an apple?!?!?!?!?
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hey SNG, i don't know how often you play or what stakes or what buy-ins or even what type of games you play, but believe me, more than half of the players go thru bad times, bad beats, variance and all of that, and that the biggest part of the game, you must be able to deal with it. Pros don't even think about bad beats, they don't let it get into their heads, they have accepted that in poker, in their profession.
for real though, best advice i can give you, is take a nice long break from poker, no reading no nothing. at least 2 weeks off.
Then as gidders said, get some help with your game, see what your weaknesses are, plug the holes and you'll be that much better.
BUT, if you feel that you are suffering financially, or you feel you need to really quit poker, do so right away. No need to go thru that stress. It could have some terrible consequences in your life, and i am sure no one needs that shit. There are other things in life that are more important.
And oh yeah, last but not least, don't play poker with money you get from others. That's the last thing you need right now, to borrow or play with money you don't have or can't afford to lose. That is a very dangerous ingredient for your poker. Take time off, save what you can afford and then give it anther try later on.
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also what jcar12 said, i don't think i could put it in any better way than he did. He is right on the money with his tips. He has some very very good advice.
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You know, whenever I see posts like this it amazes me that no one can just say. "Cool, better luck with your other endeavors."
Maybe poker isn't for him. Most poker players are not profitable. There is no shame in admitting defeat. Actually, in poker it is the smart thing to do.
If you want to leave the game, there is nothing wrong with that. Take up something else. Never be afraid to try new things. Maybe one day down the road you will come back to the game...Then again, maybe not. But that's ok.
You are not required to play poker once you start. If you feel you are losing money...or simply not having fun with the game, leave. There are millions of other activities out there for you to enjoy.
Just be honest with yourself. I see a ton of encouragement to rejoin the game from the posts here but you are the only one that has to live with the decision. -
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It's been my experience that to be especially skilled at <span>any</span> craft it takes years and years of practice. You may get discouraged when some of the ranked players write about having immediate success and an apparent natural understanding of the game - for the rest of us mortals it takes thousands of hours of play until the nuances of the game become second nature. I started playing a little more than two years ago. At first I donked away about $200 before I started making consistent money in low-limit sitngos and cash games. I've read more than a dozen books, read hundreds of posts on this forum and 2 + 2, and I am still a low-limit player. I feel like my tournament game is just now starting to develop, as I now have the ability to "pull the trigger" and do what it takes to make it deep, I just need to stop donking my big-stack away during the end game. :)
I strongly urge anyone who is <span>seriously</span> interested in becoming a great player to not expect immediate results, because you are going to have to put in an absolute ton of hard work. Stop posting your bad beats, stop thinking about bad beats, and start focusing exclusively on improving your game. One of the characteristics of a great player is to not let the downswings of the game have a negative effect on your mentality. If you don't have the time and the patience to develop your game, you should do yourself a favor and lose all poker-related ambitions you may have. You're just going to be donating money if you don't. -
I spent over $10,000 "learning" to play poker. Granted, my real job allows me that. Now, part time poker I made over $70,000 since May of last year. Biggest MTT win 17K on the Saturday 150 on PP. Just keep learning and be VERY PATIENT> People will give you their chips and money. I still DONK of chips making ill timed moves. I would prob be up 150k if I was more disciplined!
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Jcarr, what field in pyschology you have your degree in?
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It's variance, dude! But if you went broke you were playing above your bankroll. I have been on the most horrendous negative side of variance (only at stars) lately, but I'm in no danger of losing my bankroll. I'd drop down to .15/.25NL and $5 sngs long before I let that happen.
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SNG ACE, don't listen to all of these other people. The reality is that the vast majority of players are long term losers. I'm not saying that you will be, but there are so many other things to consider.
Your profile says that you are a student. This is the time to study while having fun and partying. You only get one chance to go to college and I think if you continue playing poker all the time, you will regret it and feel you wasted your chance.
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Look man, youre all over the place. Just recently you decided to pick up a new game, omaha H/L. Did you really expect to pick up such a complicated game and instantly be good? Go back to basics man. Stick with what you know, and be willing to learn something new. Being on this forum alone proves that you have some inclination to be better than probably 80% of the players out there.










