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Advice? (pics inside)
BobbyPossum (United States) 1,316 Posts. Joined 12-10-2006.
11-04-2009 2:25 PM

So I have this crazy ex, who doesn't I know.  But I dated her for a long time and it ended really well, we still talk, go out together and what not.  We have a ton of mutual friends so we see each other a lot whether we like to or not.  The only time when things go wrong is when I bring a new girl around.  The last 3 girls I've brought around our friends she's always had to talk some shit.  

Well the last one I brought around she didn't say anything at all, she was really friendly with her and I was shocked.  She's now dating one of our mutual friends so I thought maybe she was finally over whatever he issue was.   Well as I'm going into the bathroom she's leaving the girls bathroom.  She grabs me and pulls me off to the side and starts making out with me, I push her off and she keeps trying.  I eventually just walk away not knowing what to think.  I don't tell my new girlfriend and just blow it off as she's drunk.  

There are probably like a dozen people in the group we're with and we head to one last bar for last call.  My ex is smashed and so is her new boyfriend.  So we're leaving and my new gf is lingering behind talking to my friends.  My ex grabs me by my belt buckle and takes me down the block.  We get around the corner and she tells me she wants to fuck me and we should ditch out dates.  I'm pissed that she's acting like this and push her away.  She goes to push up on me again and tries to kiss me just as my new gf comes around the corner.  Sweet, now it looks like I was trying to make out with my ex, which was definitely not the case.  My ex goes running off and laughing and I'm left to pick up the pieces with my new gf.  

I straighten things out and tell my new gf what happened and she trusts me so everything is ok.  About a week later I tell my ex's new guy, a mutual friend of ours, what happened and he's glad that I told him.  Yesterday I get a message on facebook from my ex telling me how fucked up it was that I told him and that she doesn't want to be my friend anymore.  I normally wouldn't care but we have some many mutual friends I don't want things to be awkward all the time.  

So what do I do, say fuck it oh well and let it be?  Or ask her why she's being such a bitch?  I feel like my ex is just looking for attention but I'm not really sure.  Anyways if any of the women read this I'd love some insight.  And wouldn't mind anyone elses.

Cliff Notes:

My and ex are cool, dated for awhile.

Ex tries to make out with me while we're both out with our new bf/gf's, I reject her.

Ex tries making out with me again, my new gf sees

I tell my ex's new boyfriend, mutual friend of ours, what happened.

Ex is pissed and doesn't want to be my friend anymore.

Ex and I have a ton of mutual friends and I am looking for advice on how to handle this.









ex is the blonde on the right

 
 
 

wonglondo (Netherlands) 1,273 Posts. Joined 05-19-2007.
11-04-2009 3:08 PM - In reply to

attention craving / ego thing imo. i have an ex who's exactly like this. i fucked her once and it seems to be out of her system now as she bothers me a lot less ever since.


pigalet42 (United States) 10,498 Posts. Joined 01-31-2007.
11-04-2009 3:17 PM - In reply to

BobbyPossum: 

Sigh I'm on my gf's computer right now.  The power coupling to my PC was shot so I had to get a new one.  I'll be picking it up in about an hour though.  Don't worry my friend I'll put in probably one of the higher volumes by the time the contest is done.
you better make sure and delete your history and log out of p5s when you're done, imo

mdshack14 (United States) 2,320 Posts. Joined 05-14-2007.
11-04-2009 3:23 PM - In reply to

 You have to stop going out with the ex. As you can see it will never turn out well. It will def be awkward for a little while but that will pass. She obviously isn't mature enough to handle a break up and still see the person so you have to be the one to cut it off. I promise you you'll get some facebook message or texts from her soon. You have to ignore these and move on. But I repeat........def gotta try and not be in the same place with her. Easier said then done with mutual friends but it'll be for the best.


FenwayKing (United States) 7,514 Posts. Joined 03-13-2006.
11-04-2009 3:27 PM - In reply to

um but serious part of the post...I don't think you did anything wrong by telling the other dude, especially since he's a friend of yours. I would try to cut off contact with your ex if you are serious with your new gf because it's clear that she wants to try and ruin your relationship with your new gf. On the other hand, if you don't give a fuck about the new gf and like drama, just fuck both of them, and wait for the shitstorm to begin.


Wear (United States) 2,300 Posts. Joined 11-05-2007.
11-04-2009 3:31 PM - In reply to

This post made DefroAngels jealous "Wow 2 girls in one night"


aj_law (United States) 1,947 Posts. Joined 08-09-2006.
11-04-2009 3:34 PM - In reply to

BobbyPossum: 
Sorry I'm not like 99% of OT, I bang less than 10's and don't have the lady game 100% on lock down.


Quite the contrary, judging by those two posts, it's pretty obvious that you're likely doing better than 99% of OT in that dept.  Hence, the brag posts crack.

In the end (pun intended), your "situations" are pretty straightforward, IMO. 

Yes, your g/f does want it in the pooper.  If you're still unsure about the signals she's sending and you're unwilling to go there until she waves you around third towards home, start with a finger and go from there.

And yes, your ex is an attention seeking psycho.  Any discussion with her about the situation will go nowhere.  You're either going to have to get used to uncomfortable situations around mutual friends or stop hanging out in those groups when she's around.  It sucks, but it's how it has to be.

jasmith85 (United States) 3,209 Posts. Joined 11-08-2005.
11-04-2009 3:53 PM - In reply to

 Without reading any post in this thread and just looking at pictures.....

1. Fuck Girlfriend in Butt

2. Break up with girlfriend and get back with ex girlfriend

3. Fuck ExGF in butt

4. Post Pics in OT


popesizzle (United States) 735 Posts. Joined 08-19-2007.
11-04-2009 4:02 PM - In reply to

KatrinGauer: 

did you take pics of fucking your new girlfriend in the ass?

 
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