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 Im gonna go ahead and make an assumption she will somehow charm you into dating again.  If she doesn't the best is to have no contact, the last thing you wanna do if find out she got taken to slam city a week from now when you're not even in the mood to talk to new chicks yet.    Im pretty much an expert on these situations.

Cheer up bud, it will all work out the way its suppose:)

       you'll bounce back !

mikey! maybe you just need some time apart, u and her have been back and forth for a while, it will work out for the best in the end, if u are with her, or not, but the only advise i can give, is to not talk to her, u wont know what u want unless u get some time apart, gl buddy, hit me up on AIM whenever 

Mikey its sucks man. I hope you get through ok..   Relationships are hard work man.. Sounds like you reached a point where youve been together for so long that there is really only one more step forward which is a life commitment.. And maybe that freaked you guys out.. It will work out either way with some time apart.. Either you will realize that you are meant for each other or your not..  Either way.. Good luck to ya..


AF

 Is she with that 19year old kid from the price is right?

 Thx guys, means a lot.

 We'd been on and off for like 3 years--just really hard bc my family loooooves her, and she's close w a bunch of my friends. Life goes on i guess.

Hey man, sorry to hear about your situation...I am going through the exact same thing.  gf of 2 years broke up with me lastweek, told me she wasnt in love with me anymore and I have basically felt like shit since. 

It is really shitty man, esp when you keep thinking about the past.  I have found that it helps to stay busy and do shit that you enjoy.  I guess it just takes a while before it stops hurting and u stop thinking about the shit so much.  eh, fuck it. 

keep ur head up

muckafella:

 Is she with that 19year old kid from the price is right?

Thank me later

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 Everything happens for a reason. I used to think it was a bunch of BS, but the longer I'm around the more I find it to be true. Look after yourself, and what is best for you. The rest will take care of itself.

i hate situations like this..and i still have a hard time with them...the struggle between what is really best for our lives and what we are used to and comfortable with can be so difficult but in the end, when we know we are making the right decision, we feel better...


best of luck

you broke up with your gf and the first place you went to was OT....lol wow

It is probably the best life decision you could have made.  I cant wait til my divorce is final.  Hooray for whorism and singality.  Women are such headaches.  I guess i just havent found a good one yet.  Maybe one day but I aint lookin.

5 minutes ago?!!?!?!  I believe the standard "I just broke up with gf" must be posted in 2 mins or less.