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March Madness - OT in Vegas
Not immature if the shoe fits. Don't judge if you don't know the whole story.
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ECUgirl
Mar 26th, 2016
March Madness - OT in Vegas
LOL, don't worry. I'm going to bed. Fun day ahead tomorrow. Need my beauty sleep :) G'night.
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ECUgirl
Mar 25th, 2016
March Madness - OT in Vegas
Let me get this straight. This has nothing to do with me caring about OneM. I just don't want to see some innocent OTer vilified for no reason. It wasn't malicious. It wasn't anyone being a "tattle tale". It wasn't an attempt to make OneM look bad (I mean, he doesn't, does he' Oh nooooes, he played poker, drank and hung out with some people with vaginas in Vegas...). OneM and I were married. Neither of us made it public on here that we were separated before now, so why wouldn't someone mention him to me' It's not rocket science.
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ECUgirl
Mar 25th, 2016
March Madness - OT in Vegas
;) You found me out...
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ECUgirl
Mar 25th, 2016
March Madness - OT in Vegas
I told him. And it seriously wasn't a big deal at all. He was complaining about something and I simply told him "it doesn't sound like you have it that bad" or something along those lines. I wasn't upset. I wasn't freaking out. Nothing was said or posted here that bothered me in the least. He's the one making an issue where none exists. ***The ONLY thing that bothers me is that his girlfriend is being played. And I care about that because I don't like seeing other women get hurt or mistreated. That's all I'm saying about it.
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ECUgirl
Mar 25th, 2016
March Madness - OT in Vegas
Exactly this. OneM is the one who immediately jumped to the conclusion that someone texted me out of the blue and said "Hey, guess what' OneM was in Vegas this week". It didn't happen that way. I can't remember exactly how it came up, but it was a conversation and it was casually mentioned. That's it.
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ECUgirl
Mar 25th, 2016
March Madness - OT in Vegas
I didn't. He was brought up to me. I don't talk about him to anyone. Again, don't care. He is free to do whatever.
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ECUgirl
Mar 25th, 2016
March Madness - OT in Vegas
I texted someone to say hi and it was mentioned in passing during a conversation. I'm serious, it was absolutely no big deal and it wasn't a "gotcha" to OneM.
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ECUgirl
Mar 25th, 2016
March Madness - OT in Vegas
No names. It was more than one who mentioned it to me, though. How bout them apples' But seriously, how is this even an issue when I used to post here' It's not like it's a secret and I couldn't have read the thread. And he said nothing itt that even bothers me in the least. I mean, really' I'm gonna get all upset about someone that I've been separated from for more than a year, who is seriously dating someone else (I am too) and planning to move in with her, when he didn't say anything damning here anyway if I DID care. He could've said he fucked ten women in Vegas and I wouldn't care. He's ...
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ECUgirl
Mar 25th, 2016
March Madness - OT in Vegas
LOL!!!! Ok, I said this was the last time I was going to post in this forum, but I didn't mean last time period. Just that I'll only post in this thread. But who knows' I can take that part out if it will make people feel better ;) I'm just laughing that people actually think I stalk OneM or give a shit what he does. Just got tired of him telling me how bad he has it, so I told him it doesn't sound like it based on him being in Vegas this past week. Seriously, such a non-issue. I also think it's funny that some of the people you all accuse of being so stupid are the only ones who really ...
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ECUgirl
Mar 25th, 2016
March Madness - OT in Vegas
Thank you, someone who has a brain.
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ECUgirl
Mar 25th, 2016
March Madness - OT in Vegas
This is the last time I will post in this forum. But OneM is the asshole. If all of you only knew what a scum bucket he is. He will retaliate by saying things about me, but my conscience is clear. He posted in a public forum about Vegas. So fucking what that someone mentioned it to me in passing' There was nothing malicious or "tattling" about it. I mean, what was there to tell' He had some drinks with some women in Vegas. Like I give a shit. He can do what he wants. We've been separated for over a year. He has a girlfriend who he's moving in with next month. Bet nobody knew about her, huh' ...
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ECUgirl
Mar 25th, 2016
Another Damned Mass Shooting - Oregon
Yes, lots of over-medicating and not addressing underlying issues. Trauma and other environmental factors are huge links for developing mental illness, but there is also a genetic component. It's an extremely complex problem and I'm not sure there are any easy answers, unfortunately.
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ECUgirl
Oct 1st, 2015
Another Damned Mass Shooting - Oregon
This is so true. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink. I've worked with the mentally ill my entire career (not to mention how mentally ill people have impacted me personally), and am currently getting my Master's in Social Work. The mental health system is broken. If people don't want help, or don't stick with their treatment, or they can't afford it, then there's not much that can be done. Many of them don't even see that they have a problem. Nobody wants to spend money on prevention, either. Mental health services are constantly getting cut out of budgets or pared ...
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ECUgirl
Oct 1st, 2015
Hurricane watch 2015: Joaquin
Not looking forward to this. It has been raining for a week straight already down here. Just hoping for minimal impact.
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ECUgirl
Oct 1st, 2015
Looks like I have cancer, sigh FML
Awesome update, dolphin!! So glad to hear it.
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ECUgirl
Sep 24th, 2015
***Official*** OT Dating Thread
If you're that type of person, then you need a woman who doesn't have a problem with it. I would bet there is a woman out there who wouldn't be scared by it. You just have to find her. I think part of the stress of dating is that people are all trying so hard not to mess things up early on, that we don't always act completely like ourselves with each other. Then, when our true selves come out, as they always do, the person is left thinking "who the fuck is this and what happened to the guy/girl I met'". It almost seems like a bait and switch. One thing I've learned over the years is that you ...
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ECUgirl
Sep 21st, 2015
***Official*** OT Dating Thread
Yeah, you're right, though. We don't listen ;)
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ECUgirl
Sep 17th, 2015
***Official*** OT Dating Thread
Well, I wasn't really attempting to come up with anything original that hasn't already been mentioned, just giving you my personal opinion.
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ECUgirl
Sep 17th, 2015
***Official*** OT Dating Thread
Jaybone, all women are different in terms of what they like, so take that into account when deciding what to do. Here is my .02 fwiw. I wouldn't do flowers personally. Imo, those tend to be for a little more serious relationship than you two seem to be in at this point and might freak her out--especially if you don't know what kind of flowers she likes. I would call her first thing in the morning of her b-day to wish her a Happy Birthday, and tell her you'd like to take her out for dinner to celebrate the next time you're together. Ask her what her favorite food is (if you don't already ...
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ECUgirl
Sep 17th, 2015
How Do You Feel About Nightmares?
Not a fan of nightmares. I have the ones already mentioned where my teeth all crack and break off and I'm spitting them into my hand (so gross). I wake up feeling to make sure my teeth are still there. Ugh. I also have some version of the one where I'm at school and I need to take a final exam, but I realize that I've never been to the class and have no clue where it is, so I'm wandering around trying to find it in a panic. Those two aren't bad, but the other recurring one I have is that some shadowy male figure is standing over me watching me sleep. I wake myself up screaming with my heart ...
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ECUgirl
Sep 16th, 2015
What OT'er do you live closest to and have you met them?
Met a lot of OTers, actually. As far as closest to me, I've met Glo, killingbird and HK.
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ECUgirl
Sep 14th, 2015
9/11 Remembrance
My daughter turns 16 tomorrow. She obviously doesn't remember it, but definitely knows what happened. I already had a little cry this morning remembering. Such an awful day :(
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ECUgirl
Sep 11th, 2015
Why Do People Like Celebrities?
I couldn't care less about 99.9% of celebrities. I've met my favorite author, Diana Gabaldon, on a couple of occasions. Not sure she counts as a celebrity, though :) I wouldn't mind meeting and shaking hands with the actors who play the main characters in the TV show that was made from her Outlander series, just because I appreciate them bringing my favorite characters that I've loved for almost 20 years to life. As far as celebrity gossip, meh, don't really follow it. I played poker with Ron Wood from the Rolling Stones in Vegas one time. Ended up winning about $300 off him. We had the ...
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ECUgirl
Sep 10th, 2015
Looks like I have cancer, sigh FML
Hey dolphin. Been away from OT for quite awhile, so I'm a little behind. I just wanted to say good luck, best wishes and I'm sending up prayers and good vibes for you. This thread was brutal to read at times, but overall, I was touched by the care and concern of most posters and your positive attitude. I also had some great laughs. Hang in there. You got this!!!
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ECUgirl
Sep 9th, 2015
Heard it was a sausage fest around here these days...
No promises. Will see how it goes. LOL Pretty sure he was congratulating me on graduate school' And I didn't move to Indiana anyway, so there's that...
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ECUgirl
Sep 9th, 2015
Kentucky clerk is jailed for comtempt
He's got to be better than the other options. KA_Spirit, aka "Destroyer of Hope" :)
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ECUgirl
Sep 9th, 2015
Kentucky clerk is jailed for comtempt
I'm seriously considering voting for Deez Nuts. Or writing myself in. Still weighing my options...
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ECUgirl
Sep 9th, 2015
Heard it was a sausage fest around here these days...
LOL! Don't they make pills for that' ;) Hey Derek, I still live in Raleigh. I'm doing an online MSW program through IUPUI called MSW Direct. The flexibility of it works for me, as I'm not in a position to quit working to go to school. I'm not leaving the social work profession, just hoping to broaden my opportunities a little bit. I do love social work--most of the time! :) Thanks for your kind words.
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ECUgirl
Sep 9th, 2015
Heard it was a sausage fest around here these days...
Hey there! I took a break from OT for awhile. I got a new job a couple years ago and then started graduate school last September, so I just didn't have as much time. And some of the comments directed at me before crossed the line of funny and harmless banter/teasing to really cruel. I can definitely laugh at myself, but I don't tolerate verbal abuse anymore. So, I took my butt hurt ass elsewhere ;) Yes, there is productive life outside of OT, lol. But I've missed you guys! :)
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ECUgirl
Sep 9th, 2015